Main goal: Lose the small gut I have and have some muscle in my arms.
End goal: Abs. Doesn't have to be a full on 6 pack, but I'd like some abs, will make me feel so much better about myself, and healthier too.
This quote explains me to a T
"I want a marriage, not just a wedding. I want a family, not just a baby. I want a home not just a house. I want a future, not just promises"
I am a nice guy who would treat any women I'm with with the love and respect they deserve, most likely even treating them better than I treat myself. Also, just because i'm a nice guy doesn't mean I don't have a 'type'. Everyone has people they are and aren't attracted to.
What I really want in my life, and what I'll be making as a goal is to be the perfect (as humanly possible) boyfriend/husband. Treat her well, have a good enough job where we can go out semi-often, do little trips and vacations, and overall, just HAVING FUN and LIVING LIFE. Isn't that what it's all about?
To be fully honest, I still don't have a car, or my own house. Trying to work on it, some may say "You still haven't moved out yet?", but others say "It's fine, you're only 20 years old", so I guess it depends on who you are to determine if it's a good, bad or neutral thing.
I do however, never want to be lazy. Like if I had my own house and no job, I wouldn't ever just sit on the couch all day without attempting to get a job as soon as possible.
ALSO! Once I finally do meet my soulmate, I want to make it known that I would do everything I can to make her happy as well (without being taken advantage of I hope). I know a lot of guys who think it's just the woman that's supposed to make them happy, but that's not true at all, EVERY part of a relationship should be 100/100 (instead of 50/50 or 80/20). I'm really passionate about this, and hopefully you can see this.
I'm also not the typical guy who goes for just beauty and that's it, just so he can get in bed with her. No, I'm looking for beauty, personality and at least a 'little' intelligence. For some reason many girls are afraid of those 2 words 'beauty' and 'intelligence', please don't be.
I'm the type that believe that everyone has a soulmate, that one person that makes you complete. I believe she's out there somewhere, no matter if I find her online or in person. I want someone to do all the couples things with, holding hands, cuddling, hugging, kissing, road trips, going to fairs, etc. I want all of that, but I want it with my soulmate. I want someone who is actually going to be serious and committed and someone who wants exactly what I said above. Someone I can love without worrying if they are going to leave me or cheat on me a few years down the line. I know she won't be perfect, but neither am I, if your looking for someone perfect, then you will be lonely the rest of your life.
I want a girl who will be open about things as I am. For example, you don't have to like video games, but why can't you be open enough to try them with me? Just the same, I don't have to like dancing, but if you do, I would try it AND like it just because i'm doing it with my (hopefully) soulmate. I'm just putting this out there in hopes of finding someone without worrying about getting hurt... Who knows, maybe i'm making my chances smaller by finding a girlfriend, but if everyone only has one soulmate out of 7 billion people on earth, my chances were small from the start, right?
I guess this may seem a little strong, but this is how I feel. If you are a woman who wants a guy who will always treat you good, never keep secrets, always stay loyal, be as romantic and loving as I can be (eventually if it does turn into a relationship), who also wants and loves kissing, holding hands, cuddling, etc; while still having fun doing whatever we feel like doing for the day, then please, feel free to message me!
*I'm just here to prove that all guys are NOT the same* I'm not afraid to admit that I personally would love to cuddle/hug/kiss more than a normal guy :)
My name is Thomas, i'm kinda shy, easy going, kind, honest, & have a sense of humor. For my future girlfriend, I wouldn't lie, cheat or keep secrets.
I recently moved from upstate New York to Brooksville, Florida, and I like it so far.
I would love to do outdoor things with my girlfriend (once I find one), and road trips or whatever else. I just want a girl who would love to spend time together and do whatever we felt like at the time as a couple, I DON'T want to be the type of couple that spends most of their time away from each other when they can help it (working is different, but if we're both not doing anything and you still don't want to spend time together, that's a little weird). In no way am I saying every waking moment, but still, lol. I'm also the type of guy that believes every kiss means something.
I also want someone who is both my friend and my significant other at the same time, if that makes sense.
*Note* Bonus points if you're a video game girl! It's so rare to find an attractive girl that plays video games. HOWEVER, if you don't play video games, but would still be willing to try them, then you still get a bonus point! :P
Just thought I'd add this little bit in. These are not requirements exactly, but they will be SERIOUSLY loved.
-Like Theme Parks, fairs, roller coasters, etc.
-Like conversations (including the 'girly' ones, I don't mind).
-Eventually once I'm financially stable and stuff, hopefully you'll like road trips and just getting out and doing stuff sometimes.
-Love video games OR at least be accepting of them.
-Likes (or would like to) dress up for Halloween (I don't really do it because I don't have anyone I could do it with, but I think it'd be cool to dress up as a couple just because, kinda seems romantic, ya know?).
-Likes Haunted Houses.
-Likes Horror movies or at least can handle it (possibly with the help of cuddling? lol).
-I love a girl that likes exercise, no matter their body type. Not sure why, but one of my 'things' I'd love to do is exercise along side my girlfriend, once I have one.
-More may be added later if I think of any, but yeah.
-GIANT ear piercings. You know those people who have giant holes in their ear lobes? Yeah, no thanks.
-A B_tch. I'm fine with sass, but i'm talking about those girls I see that have that tone that tell guys every little thing they do wrong, making them feel like nothing they do is right.
EDIT Oct 4 2013: In an effort to better myself, I am asking you all to PLEASE message me and let me know the things you do/do not like about me or my profile. You also don't have to worry about me replying to you UNLESS you ask me to in the message. PLEASE do this one little thing for me for anyone who visits, if I don't know what's wrong then I can't fix it, and if there's something that I think that's wrong that you think it isn't, that would be helpful to know as well. Please help me out with this one little thing, thank you!
P.S: Don't worry if you think it's "too harsh" either, I need to know your true feelings, try not to sugar coat it, but please at least explain, thanks :)