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  • Ages 32-48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 8:44pm
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids
English, French (Somewhat), Thai (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Practical amendment. 11/14:
I need to get out more. Delayed adolescence. Let's do whatever. Amongst the madding crowd and all that. Beer and a game of pool? Coffee and French conversation? Nature walk and deep talk? Netflix and apple cider?

In a deep mood. 10/14:

clear pair of eyes
solace oasis touch
ice breaking of neck aching
loin releasing
love making
love knowing
I. I. ay yi yi.

{ life and love are not cheap or frivolous
don't look to me just looking to get off
but that could be part of it }

Robins over jays please;
woodpeckers over crows
Someday soon no preference, only beinghood
messages sent and received in mutual recognition

Paradise over carparks
back to the garden

Am I awake or dreaming, or both?

willingness to go deep
see truth
poetry, muses, song sonnets, troubadoring
candles, curries, scents and nonsense
plant medicines and mind expansion
hope tears
righteous noise
rhythm melody harmony groove dance
the divine iPod shuffle algorithm
kids and animals

way out
and back in agin
hilarity and absurdity
the cosmic joke is on you
and me
and ....


Just the facts (Version 1.0):
On the taller side and definitely a thin guy, but fit. Dark, full hair, brown eyes. I value nature and environmental consciousness, and consciousness in general! Sensitivity and empathy win points, as do wide-reaching interests beyond (but including) American pop culture.

I love few things more than making up songs and sonnets, but would love even more to harmonize with another in-the-moment poet.
What I’m doing with my life
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Work (graphic design – mostly books), but usually <40 hrs/week, and from home. Soccer. Music playing, composing, studying. Practicing with my band and wishing they weren't so busy, as I'd like to gig occasionally! Reading, learning. Riding my scooter. Wanting to get out more, in the artistic world.
I’m really good at
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Piano & singing / songwriting. Soccer. Listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've noticed them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Blankets. Middlemarch. Lazy Man's Guide to Enlightenment. At Home by Bryson. 'How to Sharpen Pencils' by David Rees. Highly recommended for its wisdom!

Movies: Harold & Maude. Buck. Bright Star. Boyhood. This is Spinal Tap. Cold Comfort Farm! Much of Moonrise Kingdom. Frances Ha. That's all; I like no other movies. Joke. Har.

TV: Mostly DVDs really. The Treme. Butterflies. 3-2-1 Contact. Intervention. Mad Men. Childrens Hospital. Adam 12. I finally enjoyed some Breaking Bad, a decade late to the meth-fueled party.

Music: wide-ranging but... Talk Talk. Fink. Sigur Ros / Jonsi. Weepies. Mute Math. Joni Mitchell. Jeff Buckley. Hammock. Explosions in the Sky. OMD (pre-1985). The entire 80s new wave pretty much; it's in my blood. Augie March. Guillemots. Sarah Siskind. Bombay Bicycle Club. Nada Surf. Elbow. Debussy. Death Cab. Zombies. Beatles. Britten. Bach! Who wants to geek out on popular music history/trivia?

Food: not too picky but not big on seafood or steak. Pizza rocks. Thai. Greens are good! I make odd and tasty soups.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
air. water. shelter. food. music. nature. friends and family. soccer. g*d. basic addition skills.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
you. You didn't know that, did you. I'm sorry if that creeped you out.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm only willing to admit people I trust and respect into my privates.
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