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44 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, French (Okay), Thai (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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On the taller side and definitely a thin guy, but fit. Dark, full hair, brown eyes. I value nature and environmental consciousness, and consciousness in general! Sensitivity and empathy win points, as do wide-reaching interests beyond (but including) American pop culture.

I love few things more than making up songs in the moment, but would love even more to harmonize with another.
What I’m doing with my life
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Work (graphic design, mostly books), but usually <40 hrs/week, and from home. Soccer. Music playing and studying. Studying acting. Reading. Riding my scooter. Wanting to get out more, in the artistic world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Piano & singing / songwriting. Soccer. Listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I shudder to think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read too much longform journalism these days. Do graphic novels count? Habibi was amazing. At Home by Bryson. 'How to Sharpen Pencils' by David Rees. Highly recommended for its wisdom!

Movies: Harold & Maude. Documentaries. Bright Star. This is Spinal Tap. Cold Comfort Farm! Much of Moonrise Kingdom. Many more...

TV: Mostly DVDs really. The Treme. Deadwood. Butterflies. Intervention. Mad Men. Childrens Hospital is hilarious!!

Music: wide-ranging but... Talk Talk. Fink. Sigur Ros / Jonsi. Weepies. Mute Math. Joni Mitchell. Jeff Buckley. Explosions in the Sky. OMD (pre-1985). Augie March. Here We Go Magic. Nada Surf. Elbow. The National. Debussy. Death Cab. Britten. Bach!

Food: not too picky but not big on seafood or steak. Pizza rocks. Thai. Greens are good! I make odd and tasty soups.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
air. water. shelter. food. music. nature. soccer. basic addition skills.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
myself. (This is something I would like to change!) :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to a young band while trying to forget I'm in my 40s. Or catching a flick at Laurelhurst with my friends Pizza and Beer. Or perhaps ecstatic dance which I'm starting to get into. (Though in the interest of full disclosure, I generally don't do this on Fridays.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wash and reuse plastic bags. For what, I'm not willing to admit. ;)

I read The Economist backwards. Does anyone finish a single issue before the next one arrives?!

The rock star within does not match the outer presentation. Alas I am sometimes afflicted with -- to quote the bard Morrissey -- "a shyness that is criminally vulgar."
You should message me if
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you want to get together and do something either in the creative arts (live music, sketching, I'm open to ideas) or outdoors (hiking, walking).