Submissiveish, I am a masochist with a low pain threshold, which I’m hoping to raise a little higher. At the moment I seem to be primarily driven by psychological and emotional masochism, which most often manifest as a desire to be degraded and used. Although something of a novice, you don’t have to talk to me for very long to discover that my kinks are diverse and transgressive, and can quickly grow dark. I am a fairly twisted little pup, but I giggle just as much as I cry.
I have several casual relationships in my life at the moment, all with people I hold very dear. However, I would also like something more committed with the potential for a long term partnership. Additionally, I am looking for my Daddy. Whether I will find partnership and Daddy in one person I do not know, but I am seeking both.
To be clear: I am ethically non-monogamous, which means I am not interested in helping anyone cheat. Also, whilst I am struggling with the term “submissive”, I am definitely not dominant, so unless you like to take the upper hand, we’re not going to click. Finally, I’m really not interested in anyone under 30 unless you are exceptionally mature and (perhaps) bearded. It’s just how I roll.
Whether we’re a match or not, all questions and insights on the topics of kink and/or non-monogamy are welcome! I love to talk about relationship models and sexuality.
I am LittleGrinning on FetLife. I don't usually add people I don't know, but feel free to say hello.