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32 M Durham, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jul 28
Native American, White
6′ 6″ (1.98m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm presently editing my answer to the match questions. If you've never done this it it a hilarious exercise in wondering what possessed you to give certain answers.

I read, I run (often in those funny looking toe shoes) and I'm working on dancing.

I like impertinent questions, inappropriate topics discussed in earnest, and the things that make people who they are.
What I’m doing with my life
I represent people who cannot represent themselves. I teach when I can, and generally fight the good fight to change the world one person at a time.
I’m really good at
Listening - I love the stories that make people who they are. The ones they want to tell the world, the ones they don't want to tell anyone, and the ones so fragile they only tell them when no one else can hear them.

Talking - I want to talk passion, about ideas, and about the impossible. To have a meaningful conversation with another person where we connect at a human level.

Back Rubs - I honed my skills in the great and mysterious backrub circles of the theatre community (I had to do something interesting before law school).

Getting Lost - I can get lost in a paper bag (I prefer to think of it as unplanned adventure).

Patience - I have a limited number virtues, but this is one of them
The first things people usually notice about me
I am told I am tall. Usually after I stand up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorites are Swashbucking, Science fiction, and Satire. With liberal definitions of all three. In particular: The Three Musketeers, Galaxy Quest, Dogma.

I'm following Doctor Who, Continuum, Bones, and The Mentalist. I can't stand most law shows, but I made exceptions for Boston Legal.

My favorites are Babylon 5, The Pretender, Highlander, and Star Trek

My favorite author is R. A. Heinlin.
Right now I'm following Jim Butcher, Daniel Weber, and Game of Thrones.

I like Terry Pratchett, and neil gaiman.

I like Movie Soundtracks, Big Band/Swing, Musicals, and a pastiche of pop songs that get stuck in my head.

I'm prone to ordering the thing I can't identify on the menu. I love good sushi, bad Chinese, and seafood.
The six things I could never do without
My Multitool
Good Friends
quiet contemplation
vigorous discussion
Something to do
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the universe, and everything

Usually I'm thinking about some kind of social science puzzle, reflecting on my last adventure, or plotting my next adventure.

Applied social science, feminism, whatever case I'm working on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with friends, reading, watching a show or traveling about. Friday is just not my adventure day.

Lately my Friday nights include reading, terrible netflix selections, and plotting wacky adventures.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was a kid, I had incredibly blond hair. We're not talking a little bit blond, bright sunshiny blond.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like dry wit, earnest discussions, aren't afraid to be open, and care more about the company than the activity. If you're intense, great, if you're laid back, no worries, and if you're shy my hurricane can fit in your pocket.