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27 • Auckland, New Zealand • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 19–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 24
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Graduated from university
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Indonesian (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), German (Poorly)
But lately, I have doubts on those beliefs.
Hence, with these doubt, I guess I am officially entering the phase of searching and looking for The Answer, that is, if it really exists.
No, I am not cynical nor pessimistic. I am an optimist who struggle in the ocean of doubts.
Curiosity has been a disease of mine since I cannot even remember. This craving to understand what is happening and why it happens and how it happens haunts me, and yet it also drives me alive.
I want it when I die, on my tombstone carved:
"HARYADY, the eternal learner."
Movies: All movies by Peter Jackson and Tim Burton, and some by Christopher Nolan
Shows: 30 Rock, Game of Thrones, True Blood, and Mad Men
Music: Tchaikovsky, Beethoven, Bach, Chopin, Lady Gaga, Madonna, The Cranberries, Amy Winehouse, Duffy, Frank Sinatra, Jo Stafford, Billie Holiday, Nina Simone, Al Green, Ray Charles, The Nashville Teens, The Beatles, The Hollies, Cyndi Lauper, Aretha Franklin, Julie London, Elvis Presley, The Bee Gees, Rosemarry Clooney, Roy Orbison, Diana Ross, Simon and Garfunkel, Bobby Vinton, Ella Fitzgerald, Perry Como, Roy Orbison, and the list goes on...
and a glass of Bourbon
The next moment my thought switched to John Lennon, the radio was not even playing any of his song.
I know it is such an anticlimax, but I just cannot help to control how the flow of thought on my mind behaves.
'Twas brillig, and the slithy toves
Did gyre and gimble in the wabe;
All mimsy were the borogoves,
And the mome raths outgrabe.
Should this interest you, perhaps you might want to stop for awhile, and say 'Hi' to me.
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