About me and who I am looking for:
Let’s face it. I am not here to be that one-in-a-million catch for which you have been searching. I can be, however, be that once-in-a-lifetime match for the right woman. When we first meet, if you sense a genuine, down-to-earth, kind-hearted, friendly, out going and approachable individual, then please do not abandon that initial conclusion. With me, what you see is pretty much with you get.
No drama; no games (unless the Steelers are playing!); just the real deal. A serial dater I am not. Monogamous? You bet! I prefer to find that one special love in which I can simultaneously lose myself and find myself. I believe the best love is the one person who makes you a better person without changing you into someone other than yourself and that the best gift we can ever give to each other is the freedom to just be ourselves.
The very least you should know about me: I believe in the power of random acts of kindness;
I am nothing without that first cup of coffee in the morning, especially when enjoyed on a balcony at the beach; I am very handy and can fix most anything and also know my way around the kitchen; and I bare no shame reflex when it comes to getting out on the dance floor (laughter encouraged and expected!) or when singing along to my favorite songs while in the car (earplugs are optional, yet highly recommended!).
You are in luck, too, as this gentleman at heart can prove to you that chivalry is not dead yet nor even on life support.
I do know how to treat a lady and will always love, honor, cherish and respect you without ever compromising your independent spirit in the process. I am very protective but will never stand in your way. I will have your back yet always walk by your side. Living a fit and active lifestyle is important to me and while I do enjoy cardio at the gym and outdoor bike rides, I am by no means a complete and total gym rat. I can, however, still see my belly button when I look down! For the most part, I am the kind of man who would rather wear out than rust out and hope to meet an equally energetic lady who doesn’t mind wiping the sweat off her brow on occasion.
While physical attraction to my match is definitely desirable, I am all about the depth and substance within. I would pair well with someone who is upbeat, fun loving and playful. She knows when to be serious and when to let loose. Laid back and easy going, she prefers to go with the steady flow of things as opposed to paddling like mad against them.
So, if you are one for whom kindness is an instinct, honesty is a lifestyle and laughter is a habit, what are you waiting for?
Note : It is been brought to my attention more than once by females on here. That they were surprised that I emailed them and they didn't think I would be there type. Since they thought I was handsome, in shape and I had a nice profile ect. I would like to clear this up right off the bat- I don't have a type, I don't care if you have a big house, fancy car, or if you make a lot of money. I read profiles, the entire profile. I look at pictures, like most people do, and what interests you. I'm not looking for a "Barbie doll" type of lady. Granted I prefer slender too big and beautiful but remember there's an awful lot in between and I'm more than happy with that. I also prefer plain flashy. I'm looking to make a connection with someone! I've had that once before and I'm not willing to settle for less. Looks and bodies will fade over time, inner beauty never disappears.
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