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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20-43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 3
5' 7" (1.69m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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"One half the world laughs at the other, and fools are they all" (Baltasar Gracián)

““For there is not a single human being, not even the primitive Negro, not even the idiot, who is so conveniently simple that his being can be explained as the sum of two or three principal elements; and to explain so complex a man as Haller by the artless division into wold and man is a hopelessly childish attempt. Harry consists of a hundred or a thousand selves, not of two. His life oscillates, as everyone's does, not merely between two poles, such as the body and the spirit, the saint and the sinner, but between thousand and thousands.... The separation of the unity of the personality into these numerous pieces passes for madness. Science has invented the name schizomania for it. Science is in this so far right as no multiplicity maybe dealt with unless there be a series, a certain order and grouping. It is wrong insofar as it holds that one only and binding lifelong order is possible for the multiplicity of subordinate selves. This error of science has many unpleasant consequences, and the single advantage of simplifying the work of the state-appointed pastors and masters and saving them the labors of original thought. In consequence of this error many persons pass for normal, and indeed for highly valuable members of society, who are incurably mad; and many, on the other hand, are looked upon as mad who are geniuses...This is the art of life. You may yourself as an artist develop the game of your life and lend it animation. You may complicate and enrich it as you please. It lies in your hands. Just as madness, in a higher sense, is the beginning of all wisdom, so is schizomania the beginning of all art and all fantasy.”
― Hermann Hesse, Steppenwolf
What I’m doing with my life
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“I don't feel that it is necessary to know exactly what I am. The main interest in life and work is to become someone else that you were not in the beginning” Foucault, interview 1982.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
under-selling myself, my talents and my achievements
The first things people usually notice about me
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probably the fact that I'm alive. Imagine if I was lying dead on the floor. So yes, definitely the fact that I'm alive. Then my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Harvie Krumpet (shortfilm), Les invasions barbares / le déclin de l'empire américain, seven pounds, bleu, pixar-movies, ronan the barbarian, karakter, aanrijding in moscou, ...

Series: six feet under, House MD, Borgen, coupling, in treatment, chef, the wire, californication, true blood, dexter...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Beauty (people, emotions, art, music,...)
Physical contact
Peace of mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably doing things which are no business of the internet and the datingsite community
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is something I will whisper in your ear once you deserve it you lazy bum. Work for it