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28 M Oak Park, IL

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I feel like one lucky guy right now. After being to polar opposite cities in Cleveland and Paris, I've come and fallen in love with Chicago. The music scene here is unbeatable. Though my friends are the best, Im also looking to meet others outside of my circle(s) to enjoy Chicago with. By the way- that's my cousin in picture two for those wondering. We're in separate countries but are homies for life.
What I’m doing with my life
A whole lot of music. I'm in a jazz trio, perform "classical" music, and currently teach at a school. I want to get my doctoral and teach at a college but currently preparing for an upcoming piano competition in Rome. I'm always trying new intense activities, like Muay Thai (boxing), lifting, sprints etc.
I’m really good at
rapping in Mandarin, tic tac toe if I go first, finding humor in typical every-day situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
I had no idea what to put here so I asked my mildly intoxicated friends and told them I'd put down exactly what they said. "Rachmaninoff hands, beautiful lashes, and an olive toned body any lesbian would kill for" My other friend - "Drinks the blood of his enemies, always good for an adventure and a laugh, similar to Jesus, Hindu batman." Another -"passionate, intense eyes".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Anything from Rumi or Herman Hesse and the children's book "I Love You Forever"

Music - Goran Ivanovic, Bowerbirds, Trampled by Turtles, Portico Quartet, Murder by Death, Otis Redding, John Legend, Hauschka, Mum, Arvo Part, Rachmaninoff, Andrew Bird, Astor Piazolla, Scriabin, My Brightest Diamond, Brad Mehldau, Brian Eno, Hiatus Kayote, Chris Lightcap. Guilty pleasure for any sexy music (R+B)

The rest - the shows Chuck, Castle, White Collar
The six things I could never do without
My brother + sister, music, coffee + chocolate, Chicago bulls, Exercise, nature. I fit 8 into 6. Oh and Old Spice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Anything philosophical, imagining music, math for no reason whatsoever (it's genetic), nature vs nurture, what it would be like to live in the 30s, the usual love/sex/romance, and so on.
On a typical Friday night I am the company of close friends, at a concert, in the city, or focusing like a madman on learning new repertoire.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was 8, my mother bribed me with 20 bucks to make my own violin part to a Mariah Carey song - I did it and was featured fading in/out of a video recording of my sister's dance troop on the Indian channel. Somewhere, there's a video of this. I will find and destroy it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are expressive/colorful, passionate, compassionate, open-minded..... or if you're a closet goofball. I'm not on this website just to date a bunch of people. Ultimately, I know there is someone special out there that I haven't met yet and frankly I don't care how long it takes to cross paths.