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31 M Madison, WI

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:21am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an intellectual, a passionate and infinitely curious seeker of information and experiences.

I am an introvert who forms relationships cautiously at first, but deeply if we make a connection.

I believe strongly in social justice, gender equality, queer rights and sexual freedom.

I believe that almost all human experiences can be defined along a spectrum rather than with concrete labels. Exploring my spectra makes me feel free and alive.

I'm sarcastic, but not cynical. I have a sharp wit and a dry sense of humor. I've found that those I get along with best tend to laugh at the same things as me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spent about 10 years after high school "finding myself," whatever that means. I'm now a full time student (at UW Madison as of Spring 2013).

I'm engaged to and in an open relationship with an amazing woman, SuperEmmy. We've been together for over 5 years now and every day is more awesome than the last.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making latte art. Trivia. Cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm an introvert, so I think they assume I don't like people. In fact, the opposite is true...I'm just better at interacting with people one-on-one, especially when there's something there to break the ice (alcohol works shockingly well, for example, as does a conversation partner who's not afraid to take the lead a bit). In larger social settings I tend to go into observer mode, but that doesn't mean that I'm not engaged or not having fun.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Intellectual stimulation
-A sense of possibility and wonder
-[The flexibility to change what goes on the list]
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to say that thing I just thought in French. Open relationship dynamics. How awesome math is and how sad it is when people don't like math.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe working, maybe at a social gathering, maybe at home. Maybe waiting to hear from you.
You should message me if
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You're looking for a friend or a casual/secondary relationship. If you're looking for a monogamous partner or a primary relationship, I wish you luck with your search, but I'm afraid that's something I can't offer you.

You want to chat over a cup of coffee or a beer. Internet friendships are fine I guess, but at the end of the day I'm here to make real world connections.

I tend to take people's profiles at face value, so if you say something like you're not interested in open relationships or only looking for single people or don't like beards, I'm not going to message you first.