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Havok2525

42 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I finally convinced myself to take the plunge and join (nervously). Strange enough, after going through more questions than what is presumably on the MI6/CIA exams, I went dark until a couple of weeks ago. It's really hard to just blather on about one self as it feels like I'm in a Human Resources department awaiting an interview.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm incredibly lucky that I love what I do for a living; however, while I work too darn much, I'm still trying my best to balance life and work - Unsure if I'm really succeeding at it though.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being me. That includes smiling often and laughing easily - even at myself. Attempting to make the best of most situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hard to say but a few people have mentioned my dimples, smile and that I look younger than my age. I guess you'll have to be the judge. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Law thrillers so anything by John Grisham, Scott Turow, David Baldacci & Brad Meltzer and a few other lawyers turned authors. Additionally, Days of Grace, Kaffir Boy, The Wretched of the Earth, All the President's Men, The Personal Touch, The Last Lecture, The Four/Fifth Agreements. About to begin Grisham's latest The Racketer

Movies: Where to begin?!? The Usual Suspects, Insider, Heat, Gladiator, Jerry Maguire, True Romance, Sneakers, Se7en, Blazing Saddles, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Top Gun, Primal Fear, Amistad, Raiders of the Lost Ark, The Shawshank Redemption, The Constant Gardener, Field of Dreams, The Natural, Before Sunrise, The Breakfast Club, What about Bob, Midnight Run. There are so many more to add.

TV Shows: West Wing, Sports Night, Friday Night Lights, Alias, Lost, VEEP, Scandal, Happy Endings, New Girl, Castle, NCIS:LA, Good Wife, Mindy Project, Mentalist, ESPN. My DVR gets a good workout.

Music: Reggae (Bob Marley & other old school artists), Of Monsters & Men, All things Hans Zimmer movie soundtrack related, Adele, Ben Howard, Fun., Damien Rice, Ellie Goulding, The Lumineers, Mumford & Sons, Rihanna, Sting, Daft Punk and more

Food: Everything, with the exception of sushi, beets, avacado's, mayonnaise
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six?!? Like there's only six things, which don't include food, air, sleep, the bare essentials.

1. Family/friends (yes, they're one!)
2. My Passports (Both British & U.S.)
3. My sense of purpose
4. Sports (watching & playing)
5. Great food: including chocolate
6. Sunshine, laughter, life, happiness and much more
7. Music
8. Laughter & Comedy
9. My 5 Senses
10. New things to do & learn

I'm sure there are more but I'm too busy with answering the remainder of the million questions on here.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next travel destination and new things to try in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There isn't a typical Friday night here in New York so it can vary.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is that I'm. . . . .Ok, I don't drink coffee but I do like the smell of it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You made it through the entire profile and are intrigued to know more.

Additionally, you are smart (witty/sarcastic), confident, warm, can laugh at yourself (funny), motivated, passionate about life, can put up with my love of sports, genuine and looking for the same.

You should also have a passport handy.

One last thing: Looking forward to skydiving (will be terrified) and bungee jumping (does anyone do that anymore?) so if that interests you, message me

Actually, the last thing: if you can help me relearn French, you get bonus points :-)