I want that person that is willing to put their heart out there and be vulnerable together in taking that leap for something that is genuine and honest and rare in this life. I think we get the best of love by being strong enough to be vulnerable with one anothers hearts and taking that chance that no one else will due to hesitancy or fear of the unknown.
Lastly, I feel the need to add this disclaimer from messages I have received from women: No, I am not on here to hook up. I know exactly who I am and what I want in life, and I hope to find someone else that has that same view point. I also love kids, if I dated someone with kids I would treat them as my own and give them all the love an opportunity my parents gave me to be the man I am today.
I also want to throw this out there, while this site is good for meeting new people, it is not the way to truly get to know someone. I believe that if you are interested in one another, the best method is to just meet up and get to know one another the old fashion way in person. I would appreciate someone that has that same mentality. You cannot see a connection or bond through emails. Thats only seen when you are around another person and in their presence. Anyone can be a fake or phony, but isnt that the point of meeting, to determine if someone is legit and genuine? Any one can write words online, but why not meet upfront right away to even see how legit they are before you potentially spend real time getting to know someone? Cmon people! Haha.
Distance should also not matter. In todays world, there is such a lack of genuine, good people that the heart should be open to meeting that special person anywhere, whats a couple hours for love and happiness potentially? You never know until you try. The heart should be open to anyone from any walk of life.
To sum it all up...I want a loving, caring, optimistic woman who I can see a future with and someone I would be proud to introduce to my parents one day and just someone i can give my all to each and every day. My parents have been married over 30 wonderful years and they are the reason i know how to treat someone the way i do, i grew up watching what true love looks like! They are my inspiration and i aspire to have the love that they have with another.
I believe we all deserve one anothers' best effort in dating and relationships, thats just how life should be! :)