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  • Ages 24-36
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Last online
Yesterday – 9:48pm
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Atheism and it’s important
English, C++ (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Want to hear my voice? Here's a youtube series that I've recently started ->

I'm intellectual, cheerful, and insightful. I'm devoted to beautiful music, outdoor wanderings, high-quality books, thoughtful movies, and enjoyable conversation ("All conversation is psychological warfare: knowing this will make you enjoy an evening with your friends even more.")

I'm a rationalist, a pianist, a computer programmer, a humanist, a political middle-grounder, a gamer, a sci-fi buff, and a dark elf (on Halloween).

I write science fiction short stories (one published, more to come, hopefully), score student films, attend game jams, think socialism got a bad rap, play chess, and believe in the importance of a simple life.

And that's me... in a nutshell.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
For the past year I've been focusing on getting in shape (lost 65 lbs!).

I've recently left my job with Microsoft as an SDET and am currently experimenting with some creative career possibilities (music and fiction writing) while looking for a good contract opportunity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Lateral Thinking
Teaching tricky concepts.

I'm a fairly decent pianist, programmer, and composer.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told that I have a bright, baritone voice that's easily recognized from outside in the hallway.

Other than that? I'm tall... I suppose.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Great scott, there could never be enough room for this:

Books: Watership Down, Dune, The Once and Future King, Godel Escher Bach, Ender's Game, Walden, A Series of Unfortunate Events, The Sandman, Watchmen, Oryx and Crake, Skellig, Songs of Experience and Songs of Innocence, Johnathan Livingstone Seagull, Lord of the Flies, 1984, Brave New World, Gulliver's Travels, Sophie's World, Treasure Island, and many, many more..

Music: Favorites include John Adams (the composer), Stravinsky, Vince Gauraldi, Bill Evans, William Boscum, Debussy, Michael Torke, Hans Zimmer, and of course, J.S. Bach.
Hear my own music here! ->

Movies: Spirited Away, Koyaanisqatsi, North by Northwest, That Thing You Do, Lawrence of Arabia, Amadeus, A Knight's Tale, The Princess Bride, Dr. Strangelove, Jane Eyre, The Bourne Identity, Ocean's Eleven, Star Wars (original trilogy), Searching for Bobby Fischer, The Lord of the Rings, Twelfth Night, Life is Beautiful, (and many, many more.)

TV: Downton Abbey, Arrested Development, Firefly, Sherlock, The Walking Dead, Game Of Thrones, 30 Rock, Community, Star Trek (TNG), Battlestar Galactica

Games: I like me some artsy Indie games: Braid, Dear Esther, World of Goo, To The Moon (sniff...), Amnesia, etc.
Although I don't spend much time on triple-A titles, my favorites are probably Riven, Half-Life 2, and Starcraft 2.
I review new short indie games on
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Music. If you don't already agree with me on this one, I couldn't possibly explain why it's so important to me.
2. Fiction. Good stories are the reason that life is worth living. I'm serious.
3. Family. Is it a bad thing that this comes third for me? Pay no attention to the order of this list, I'd say....
4. The Internet. For both work and play, I just can't get enough of the internet. I can skip meals for a few days if I have to... but I MUST have a fast, reliable connection.
5. The outdoors. I feel trapped and suffocated in big cities... but on a hike or camp-out I finally feel free and at rest. I'm especially drawn to large bodies of water.
6. Craisins?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Would a world government necessarily be a bad thing?
Will video games ever become art?
What's the best way to decide ethics?
What's wrong with my writing?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
1. Inside reading a book.
2. Out watching a movie.
3. In playing a good game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I talk to myself. Aloud. Sometimes.

And I have read all fourteen sequels to "The Wizard of Oz".
You should message me if
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You'd like a date sometime in the next week, but especially if you'd enjoy a conversation on:

Music as art
Films as art
Literature as art
Video games as art
The future of the human species