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29 M Redmond, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:18am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, C++ (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I find it a little insulting that I would be asked to summarize "myself" in a 500 character box.

I'm intellectual, cheerful, insightful, and unique. I'm devoted to beautiful music, outdoor wanderings, high-quality books, thoughtful movies, and enjoyable conversation ("All conversation is psychological warfare: knowing this will make you enjoy an evening with your friends even more.")

I'm a rationalist, a pianist, a computer programmer, a humanist, a political middle-grounder, a gamer, a sci-fi buff, and a dark elf (on Halloween).

I write science fiction short stories (one published, more to come, hopefully), score student films, think socialism got a bad rap, play chess, and believe in the importance of a simple life.

And that's me... in a nutshell.
What I’m doing with my life
For the past year I've been focusing on getting in shape (lost 65 lbs!).

I've recently left my job with Microsoft as an SDET and am currently experimenting with some creative career possibilities (music and fiction writing) while looking for a good contract opportunity.
I’m really good at

Lateral Thinking
Teaching tricky concepts.

I'm a fairly decent pianist, programmer, and composer.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told that I have a bright, baritone voice that's easily recognized from outside in the hallway.

Other than that? I'm tall... I suppose.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Great scot, there could never be enough room for this:

Books: Watership Down, Dune, The Once and Future King, Godel Escher Bach, Ender's Game, Walden, A Series of Unfortunate Events, The Sandman, Watchmen, Oryx and Crake, Skellig, Songs of Experience and Songs of Innocence, Johnathan Livingstone Seagull, Lord of the Flies, 1984, Brave New World, Gulliver's Travels, Sophie's World, Treasure Island, and many, many more..

Music: I'm very much a classical, jazz, and film score fan. Favorites include John Adams (the composer), Stravinsky, Vince Gauraldi, Bill Evans, William Boscum, Debussy, Michael Torke, Hans Zimmer, and of course, J.S. Bach.

Movies: Spirited Away, Koyaanisqatsi, North by Northwest, That Thing You Do, Lawrence of Arabia, Amadeus, A Knight's Tale, The Princess Bride, Dr. Strangelove, Jane Eyre, The Bourne Identity, Ocean's Eleven, Star Wars (original trilogy), Searching for Bobby Fischer, The Lord of the Rings, Twelfth Night, Life is Beautiful, (and many, many more.)

TV: Downton Abbey, Arrested Development, Firefly, Sherlock, The Walking Dead, Game Of Thrones, 30 Rock, Community, Star Trek (TNG), Battlestar Galactica

Games: I like me some artsy Indie games: Braid, Dear Esther, World of Goo, To The Moon (sniff...), Amnesia, etc.
Although I don't spend much time on triple-A titles, my favorites are probably Riven, Half-Life 2, and Starcraft 2.
I review new short indie games on
The six things I could never do without
1. Music. If you don't already agree with me on this one, I couldn't possibly explain why it's so important to me.
2. Fiction. Good stories are the reason that life is worth living. I'm serious.
3. Family. Is it a bad thing that this comes third for me? Pay no attention to the order of this list, I'd say....
4. The Internet. For both work and play, I just can't get enough of the internet. I can skip meals for a few days if I have to... but I MUST have a fast, reliable connection.
5. The outdoors. I feel trapped and suffocated in big cities... but on a hike or camp-out I finally feel free and at rest. I'm especially drawn to large bodies of water.
6. Craisins?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Would a world government necessarily be a bad thing?
Will video games ever become art?
What's the best way to decide ethics?
What's wrong with my writing?
On a typical Friday night I am
1. Inside reading a book.
2. Out watching a movie.
3. In playing a good game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I talk to myself. Aloud. Sometimes.

And I have read all fourteen sequels to "The Wizard of Oz".
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You'd like a date sometime in the next week, and you can hold a meaningful conversation in any of these areas:

Music as art
Films as art
Literature as art
Video games as art
The future of the human species