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30 M Singapore, Singapore

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:19pm
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*Note: LA dude working in Japan then Singapore.

So… do you like… stuff?

I have a shed full of power tools that I use for home remodeling projects. I have an orange tree in my yard, and I'm an active gardener. Many of my activities are experiments, and failure is always an option. I have a long term goal of producing fuel ethanol in a solar still from sugar beets that I grow in my front lawn. Also moonshine.

Here's a few promises while you are still around the top of my page:

1. You won't find any cellphone pictures of me in a bar, holding a cup.
2. I'm feministy, kinky, and I like smart ladies.
3. My listed height is accurate, promise!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I was never a boy scout, but I'm still trying to earn all the badges.

~Fair Warning/Weirdo Alert Section~

-Looking for a primary partner with whom to share an open relationship.
-Podcast listener
-Not on Facebook
-Unrepentant beard-o
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm pretty good at my job: I'm a sound mixer for tv and film. Besides that, I can also do the following:

1. Bake a whole chicken and use all the scraps
2. Make soap from bacon grease
3. Use a table saw and router
4. Ride a motorcycle
5. Solder electronics
6. Make numbered lists?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Stay with me, I'm still ignoring the prompts here. Two quick things:

1. I think you look great without your makeup on.
2. Every okcupid question in a nutshell: "My last relationship was terrible because of _x_. Are you _x_?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm picky (read: weird) about music. Turns out that what I really like is a song that tells a story, with clear, easy to hear lyrics. Just plain "sing into this can" style songs. So with that: I like the White Stripes, EELS, some Jonny Cash and Tom Waits, Woody Guthrie and original blues/ Alan Lomax type stuff.

My favorite movie is Who Framed Roger Rabbit. Also: Ghostbusters, Indiana Jones, Back to the Future (III especially. I know.), Mad Max.

I'm reading lots of gardening/farming/sustainability and Tiny House type books now. Oh and Mary Roach! You should message me if you're Mary Roach.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I never leave home without:

1. Hat
2. Mini-leatherman
3. Telephone

As long as I've got those I can make the other three.

WAIT. Pen. I also keep a pen on my keychain. Message me if you need a pen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Compost. That shit is magic. But I worry about my compost. Is it too wet? Too dry? Is it getting hot enough? Will it get too hot and burst into flames? They say that's really only a problem for commercial producers, but if it happened at my house it would be so very difficult to explain to the neighbors.

Isn't it amazing that there are bacteria that thrive in temperatures above 150°f and they are ALL AROUND US just hibernating until it gets hot enough to party? Magic I say.

Message me if you need dirt.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't often know what day of the week it is. I have a calendar reminder for trash day, and it surprises me every week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ok look... I may be growing a smalllarge beard. I'm really sorry about that. Maybe you'll be the reason I shave it off!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If there is room in your sidecar.

On a (finally) serious note, I'm a present, feelings-having kind of human who's looking to date in a genuine, primary-partner kind of way.

-and now-

You made it to the butt of my profile! Stick around! We have coffee and snacks for the grownups, orange slices and Capri Suns for the kiddos.