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31 Castro Valley, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Nov 19
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A sweet, gentle and demure (INFJ) expat who believes...

[You may not be their first, their last, or their only. They may even love you before they can love again. But if they love you now, what else matters? They're not perfect—you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if they can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto them and give them the most you can. They may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but they will give you a part of themselves that they know you can break—their heart. So don't hurt them, don't change them, don't analyze and don't expect more than they can give. Smile when they make you happy, let them know when they make you mad, and miss them when they're not there.]

[Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect people don’t exist, but there will always be one person that is perfectly imperfect for you.]

I desire and wait for...

A man that knows how to treat a lady. Who believes in two independent individuals becoming together in a harmonious partnership and not two individuals molding together to become one person, one thought, or one life. This man will know how to be a gentlemen and is respectful towards women. He believes that chivalry is not dead, and is kind and patient. He has a positive outlook on life and likes to experience as many things life has to offer. He likes to eat, travel and enjoys new adventures. But most importantly, he is a man that knows who he is; inside and out. He is confident and knows what he wants and needs out of life. He is loyal, willing to compromise, able to maturely communicate his thoughts and feelings, is not afraid of commitment, and knows how to express love and affection positively through words and through physical affection.

I need...

A man who is willing to accept a cat and not be allergic to them! Haha! 😄
What I’m doing with my life
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Seeking new opportunities and challenges as much as I can, and filling my life with adventure, love and happiness.

I like going outdoors, soaking in the sun and smelling the fresh air. My ultimate goal in life is to find love and happiness, and live life without any regrets. When I am old and grey, I want to look back and feel like I lived my life to the fullest!

I'm doing as many things and activities as I can possibly do that I have always wanted to do!... such as, volunteer work, yoga and jogging. I have a passion for drawing and writing poetry, as well as a huge interest in trying out new eateries and experiencing different kinds of foods. I really enjoy food and yes! I'm one of those Asian girls that love to take pics of the delicious foods they try and of the lovely places that they go to! :-D

I believe in not just making a living and surviving in life, but also taking the time to live life and enjoy it... So I want to do as many things as I have always desired to do in life whether they be small or big achievements, and I want to travel the world.

So.., living a happy and content life is my ultimate goal, hence 'what I am doing with my life.'
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...being the voice of logic and reason; a good listener and providing a strong shoulder to lean on.

In other words,... Being a good friend! :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My face and accent, and it's rather annoying! So I would prefer to hear people notice other things about me instead.

People also notice my fashion sense and always compliment me on how nice I dress. :-D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favourite movie: Pretty Woman. Favourite show: Wicked on broadway. I like a wide range of music and I love all kinds of food. I like trying new things.

Favourite book: Dear John - Nicholas Sparks

P.s. Reading is my new passion/hobby! I plan on reading every book I possibly can! 😄
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love! ~ My family, friends, and my cat!
Technology ~ Cellphone, Internet and car
Good food (especially seafood)
Good sleep ~ Relaxing days off work
Socialization ~ Adventure and travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My life,
My future,
My career
Being happy,
Finding love,
Having fun and spending time with friends,
Moving forwards,
What else I can achieve in my bucket list of life accomplishments and desires!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends how I feel, sometimes I can go out to a bar with friends and other times I can just stay at home and do absolutely nothing!, or read a book. It doesn't really matter too much. As long as I am not at home all the time, then I am happy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One of the things on my bucket list of things to do in my life is to read the entire Bible from beginning to end and it's not necessarily for religious reasons either. But I believe if you're going to read books then you should at least read the number one best selling book of all time!.. Which happens to be the Bible. 😊

So!.. I've been telling myself to do this for years now but I've never quite managed to muster the dedication to do it, but!.. this time I am determined! And I have decided that now is the time!.. The time to actively begin working on this achievement/challenge!..

So my most private thing I am willing to admit is; I plan to read a few verses of the Bible a night until I finally manage to read through the entire thing! 😊
You should message me if
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You have something intelligent to say and care about making real honest connects with people.

And... if you can teach me or enlighten me with your best philosophy that you live by or believe in then I'll be interested in getting to know you. 😊

Also, if you can guess right where I am an expat from. 😊