My old profile started off with “I feel as if I have found my place in life and am completely happy with the person I've become.” Well this has been a huge year of change for me. I’m still happy with who I am, but feel as if I’m in drift or wander mode right now. I have 2 sons ages 18 and 15. My oldest is in college and starting his own life and my youngest isn’t far behind. I’ve been a dedicated mom and don’t regret the sacrifices I’ve made for them. After years of them being with me 80% or more of the time, they are now 50% with their father. I have a consulting job that I do from my home and just sold a business that I started and grew over 4 years ago. I’ve always been super busy and am now finding that I have time on my hands. I am even planning on moving from this small town that I live in. Where I will end up remains to be seen. I’m plan to travel, drift, and wander for a bit. It feels fantastic to be at this place in my life!
I’ve been divorced for 11 years and have dated very little in the past 4 years. I think it’s important to learn to be alone and happy. I’m thinking maybe it’s time to find a companion. Physical intimacy would be something I’d really like to have in my life too :) I know what I want in a man. First of all, they must act like a man. They must be polite, have manners, and be trustworthy. I want someone who is comfortable in their own skin. They must be passionate about something in life. They must believe that the best is yet to come and not that they have already lived their best years.
I am an athlete. I train and compete in CrossFit. I’ve been told that I’m a badass. I don’t know, maybe I am. What I do know is that I am strong. I am strong both physically and mentally. I believe that intimidates some men. I do have a gooey middle…so my friends tell me. I am disciplined and dedicated, but am also a free spirit at heart. I love to dance and a few times a year you will find me dancing until sunrise at some amazing place with a huge smile on my face. I suspect this will occur more often in the coming year!
There is so much more to me than can be said here. If I’ve peaked your interest, please reach out.