Just lately I am really learning more things about myself. I guess this could be partly due to meeting new people, and sharing stories and feelings that have brought me to where I am in life.
As I grow....age.... mature........, I've been really delving in to what captures and holds my attention...
...I'm ready to have some fun again... I'm fun, sensible, responsible, warm-hearted, and have a humorous side also.
My humor will still catches people off guard now and then, but I think laughter and playfulness are a great way to express yourself...and to lighten the heaviness of life's stresses.
Who I'm looking for;
I want a man who has learned from everything he has experienced, and can open up to receive love again. We've all been through things, but if there's forgiveness, then we can be vulnerable again and appreciate the good things/people that come our way now.
I'm not one that needs constant calls or texting to feel connected. I value my time to do things I like, and my every moment need not overlap into yours...
I want a partner, who will be someone who has great ideas and opinions. Someone who is my safety in a storm, my cheerleader when I need encouragement, has warm feet when mine are cold, and sometimes leaves a note by the coffee pot just because.... I'll be all these things for you too!
It's time to do something again, besides home-improvement projects, or work!
For awhile I was hiking frequently with a friend, and then he moved away. It's just not the same taking off into the cool air and trails .....alone...:(
A good comedy club is also a great way to refresh and get those endorphins flowing. I love to laugh.
I've recently re-entered the world of retail...more on the HR side...which I love! Days and hours vary week to week. That's the only downside :(
This just means I need to request special time off for fun plans or outings. Not a problem with enough notice.
I know time and distance can be a huge factor when trying to get together. But, aren't WE worth it? ;)
Now about kids....
I've spent years on making sure I scattered my three children into the world as healthly, well balanced individuals. Mission accomplished! (well, one came back for a spell) She's a great kid though, and we all know how hard it is out there right?
As for keeping my chores done;
I wash my own car (probably not often enough), clean the garage (it's due), but prefer a helper for yard work (hmmm, maybe I'll just hire a Gardner).
I can also be comfy and casual in jeans for that hike, or be all dressed up for a night out with my special guy.
In a nutshell....
I'm pretty much trying to learn to live again, and let myself start playing more now that my free time is just that .... I've arrived (finally) to a point in time where no daycare is needed, nor does anyone keep track of me. I'm footloose so to speak. I've just been way too responsible to get out and kick up my heels. It's time!
The last concert I attended was a Christian music genre. It was fantastic and energizing. Love live music from 80's, 90's, etc.
I can be a very committed person to whomever I am spending quality time with. I've found though that there are numerous players on here, so...
Please move on to another profile if you just want a pretty lady on your arm, cuz this one wants to be in your heart too...as well as wrapped in your arms, for that long hug goodnight.
If you are a true gentleman and are following traditional ways to create romance, you only want ONE special woman in your life. You don't play games with peoples hearts. And you are very sincere about the things that are important. Safety and trust with each other is above all the most important!
Until we meet....