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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 51-63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 4, 2013
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and it’s important
Post grad
My self-summary
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Hello, I am looking for more sweetness in my life. It seems so simple, and yet, sweetness requires so much. You have to be in the present, accepting whatever comes down the 'pike. You have to love humans, their triumphs and limitations... One must see beauty, beyond the obvious. To commit to action without investment to outcome. We can only support each other, not demand a result -even if we both are in agreement. I am spiritual. Sometimes I seem intelligent, but that is only experience and accumulation of information.

I believe in Love. In it's commitment, in it's fidelity, in it's pervasiveness, in it's blessings..I enjoy helping, but only when help is desired. I enjoy sharing, intimately, in joy. I am strong, but at times I've been caught in inertia. At those times, a gentle breath can send me over mountains - though I prefer the ocean. I love to sing, especially with someone else. You don't have to sound great -just enjoy putting out the meaning/emotion. I enjoy reading aloud; From kid's books, through Garrison Keillor, up to complex novels.I volunteer. I try to match action to belief.

.I'm usually truly joyous and affectionate. I am committed to assisting the Universe as best as I can.. I look for the spark, the angelic message in all. I believe a relationship is a cauldron of exploration and experimentation of growth towards intimacy, rest, and fun. Politically, I believe our republic is untenable. I daily recommit to my practice of spirit and cooperation in my interactions with all who come my way.. I am supportive and a cheer leader for your aspirations and dreams of self. I honor and seek the other's truth.

You are honest and have good communication skills. A sense of humor is a necessity, be able to see each moment as absurd and holy. You are someone who I am excited to be with, strong yet gentle.. You look back with joy and a holy mischief emanates.
Thank you ever so much for your time and consideration. Now, don't just idly daydream, contact me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Developing an alternative social contract.Socialist in the Rousseau-ian vain:"Social intercourse is the true capital". My work hours are diverse, but I can claim time off. I believe in volunteering. Working on a portable dodecahedron. Integrating spiritual, political, herbal, emotional/physical bodyworker
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Acts of Loving kindness, Bodywork. Gardening, reading aloud. Getting cleaner in my relationship with compassion. I am usually joyous and animated socially, but truly enjoy feeling energy while doing things together around the home.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Joy and openness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This Book Needs No Title, Prometheus Rising, Three Magic Words, Synergistics, Rabbi's Tarot, Name of the Rose, Honey From the Rock, ACIM, Keys of Enoch, enneagram;
What dreams may come,Black Orpheus, A Safe Place, Mary Poppins, Return of Martin Guerre, The Apartment,Raiders of the Lost Ark, Groundhog's Day;
Mostly musicals;
Meeting of Minds, Firefly, Life on Mars, Day the Universe Changed, Sports Night;
Symphonic romantic movement , folk, Dgiin, jazz fusion,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Proximity to the ocean,
love:the Oneness, the appreciation, the ability to serve, gratitude, and forgiveness.
the privilege of being present when someone is brave enough to make a change toward their life purpose,
allies to stand together,
smell of my intimate's hair,
sacred space to help to create a vortex for meditation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The social process and institutions and of course: judging myself. So far, I'm okay and life is mostly excellent.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Life has temporary patterns, then chaos, then more patterns-new and /or similar. Like a fractal.
You should message me if
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If you are not afraid to show up and be present.