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31 • Oakland, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 32–49
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Feb 10
- Hispanic / Latin, White
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- When drinking
- Other, and laughing about it
- Aries, and it matters a lot
- Graduated from university
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
I moved to the bay nearly two years ago, and its been the most fascinating ride of my life - watching old habits and parts of self fall away, witnessing pieces emerge that had been waiting ever so patiently to be expressed and invited out. Looking with wonder at this shiny new evolving self and loving every molecule.
I spend my days building my business (massage therapy, theta healing and energy work, and aromatherapy), dancing for a collaboratively-run dance company, going to contact improv jams and ecstatic dance (it's my Sunday morning church), collaborating on dance film projects, and devoting my life to inquiry that involves the meshing of creativity and transformation.
I make a point to get out of town (often into nature) once a month. Self care is a priority; as is living a high-quality life now.
I'm super motivated by building my career these days, to the point where I'm not sure how much time I have for dating right now. But I'm letting go of any belief that I have to choose love OR career, or anywhere I believe that I can't have both, and putting this out here to see what falls into my lap.
I'm ready for partnership, and super specific about what I want. I'm happy to wait for the right match and explore as a means to find it.
laughing. all the time.
super interested in the work of energy healers: Barbara Brennan, Louise Hay, Vianna Stibal, and dance makers: Anna Halprin, Liz Lerman, just to skim the surface.
movies: anything that questions/explores consciousness and reality and challenges the way we normally conceptualize these things: inception, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, matrix, waking life, happenstance, etc. Also really dig fantasy, especially as it applies to contemporary socio-political commentary (ala Hunger Games). I used to be a community organizer for many years, which continues to shape my outlook.
my toolbox of handy-dandy healer/transformation tools
collaborating with amazing people to create wondrous things
my body (she's my smartest working part)
my amazing, brilliant, spread-all-over-the-globe (soul) family.
How I can align with my highest vibrations as frequently as possible.
The power of our thoughts, and the power we all possess within us to manifest our hearts' desires.
What makes for good partnership, and how much the blueprint I received from my parents relationship plays a role in my own relationship construction.
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