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HeatherBear78

36 F Reno, NV

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 34–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:04pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and wants more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Sign Language

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is but a glimpse into who I am, a long glimpse, the better the idea the right person has in responding...right?... I am a down to earth, feet in the grass ,howling under a full moon, carefree woman. I am lovable, honest, old fashioned woman, who is looking for a special someone who can become that person in my life because they gravitate to me, they smile when they think of me and get excited to see me. A person who wants courtship, not a fling. I am open minded, witty, sarcastic, a wise ass, talkative, truly caring and crafty (not just Witchy either haha) I'm adveturous and like to do and try new things, including places, foods and just experiance spontanious moments.
I'm a kickass Mom to my 7yr old girl, and strive to give her the ideals that you can truly do or be anything you want if u set ur mind to it. I'm very involved with my kiddo's life, after school and various activities. I spent a lot of time in my past putting others first and watching things from a bench... And now its my time. I have self confidence, and sometimes let my mouth run a bit to long, but that's what happens when I'm excited. I'm a gypsy at heart, and have a great love and appreciation for life, family (wether it is blood or not) friends, and animals, mother nauture and this wild universe.
I'd think it would be great to find that special man to share my path with. I don't need a vidiot,gamer or boy-child that has 'acting like an adult' issues. Games I will play are ones with boards and I get to be the shoe.... This is maybe open to negotiation, but we will see...And others that I play with my girl. I won't give out my # very quickly, because a man that really wants to know me and get involved with me will spend the time to do so I'd hope. If u want to be that big of a part of my world we will talk, long conversations with real content.
I will not throw myself at any man, I have a lot of self respect and pride... this means no booty calls, sexting, tacky pics. So if that's what ur looking for I'm not your girl. Also looking for someone between 34-39, it is what it is. I'm a one man, woman period. Not a partier, not a smoker not a drinker. That phase of life has past. Don't mistake those answers as I'm boring or doesn't wanna do things... I have wild stories from my super fun nights haha. I'm just not 21 anymore and am into a family setting which is a hell of a lot more fun!
Would love to find that special person who craves the same things. I do believe in horoscopes, having some insite into a person. Gemini's need not apply, too many apples screwed that up sorry.

I have some seriosus health hiccups (debilitating migraines and a few other things), I tackle and get up everday, take on the day no matter what, but by the end of if I maybe paying the pricess of 'normalcy'. I work aound my health as best I can and continuing doing more for myself n kiddo. (If u got this far and see interested scroll to the very bottom section n read that its laughable...then read back up) lookin for REAL possibilities .....someone is out there!!!! Ya never know, unless you try. :o)
What I’m doing with my life
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I am steadying myself on my own two feet, and making myself and my kiddo's life better than it was. I have reciently taken a lot of negative people out of our world and worked through a lot of things that's gone on. I'm excited about doing somethings in my life that I put on the back burner (so to speak) for too long. There are a lot of things I am good at and try and make my own opportunites happen when it comes to life. I'm honest, which means I want the same. I am a people person, can be bubbly and am just fun. (There has been a slu of poles discussing how fun I am.. Just sayin') I'm journeying through life and rolling with its changing tides.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people smile, laugh and giggle so hard they pee a little. I'm a great cook, I've hosted brunches and parties, asked to make fun and festive halloween treat themed events and enjoy it. I do enjoy it only second to doing things with my girl though, especially if she can help :o) I do makeup for fun, and for special occasions along with face painting and at Halloween do zombie makeup for friends (so not into zombies anymore though) I'm a movie buff, and an avid movie line nerd as well, the cheesier the better. I love to sing and rock out with the doors open and don't have much shame. Oh, and crafts... Yeah I can find about 20 different ways to utilize something. And using the Universe's gifts to fortell the future (scry's into crysatal ball) haha
The first things people usually notice about me
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My size. My chest. My hair color. My makeup. My smile. My jewelery. I listed them honestly. This isn't to say I should be automatically difined but them all. I've been the bbw a lot of my life, curves and squishy not just 'a big girl' and I'm on the downhill slide from it as I improve everything in my life. My chest, that doesn't need explaining. I like having dark bloodred hair, it suits me, I am a redhead. I usually have elaborate makeup on, because I do like to be expressive. I say its the inner me just shining like the light I am. I do leave glitter in my wake, don't worry its easily removed by tape. Ha! I love to laugh, and am secretly always thinking of something that brings a smile to my face. I'm a pisces so... I like shiney things. I wear bangles still, and have rings on my fingies, I am not a material girl though. A low cut blouse and a broomskirt make me happy, along with sandles. Pretty down to earth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ok, so I have favorite authors, but ill just state I like most things that are furry and fangy smutt. Paranormal romance is the litterary term, but I real adult level novels not tween stuff. I won't read things that don't have a good story line or faul language used in all the right ways haha, I like meat in my words, for them to mean something besides just a hot n heavy sex scene.

I like damn near every movie so this is a hard question to answer... Anything 80's-90's is a good start,

Musicials, RHPS, Scifi stuff and anything Mel Brooks, Steve Martin or ones that make me giggle. The cheesier the better. Love me some Elvira and Addams family.I like BBT, Dexter, the Middle, Modern Family, Mike n Molly (love me some Molly), Archer and a Simpsons for life person. Scifi Face Off, Naked Vegas and Bitten, Defiance, Dominion, Mythbusters, Vikings, True Blood... not a Zombie/horror fan at all anymore... (Too many years of doing haunted house/horror makeups) and I like the TLC channel for their weird documentry shows on people who put my 'crazy' to shame.

Music wise, anything from the 70's-90's, big hair as well (oh Love me some ballads! And men in eyeliner with hair bigger than mine) musicals, country, rock, folky, newage, opera, broadway...anything but rap.

Food... Anythin but sea food, sorry guys, there are girls out there that do sushi, I'd rather have cheese enchilada's...and guac, guac is a must. Indian, Greek, Asian, Italian. I eat mostly vegitarian, but am not one.. If I don't get a burger once in a while I get grouchy. Oh and chocolate.... I'm a chocolate gal like some people are about wines.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hmm.... (Ok so my kiddo and folks are the top 2 but those are typical responces right??). Laughter, love, happy little moments, cuddly animals, and avacado's..and chocolate Those are a must even if they don't officially make the list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately, the 'where would I be if this that n the other didn't happen'. That isn't all negative, its more of a huh... Isn't it odd how life works thing. Usually... What that 'specific' day has the potential to hold and what I can do in that time. My kiddo, my health, my family, my heart and soul and the fact that those that are close to me want to see me with the' right for me' person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Currled up on my couch watching something with my kiddo to warp her in just the right kinda ways. I'm strange, I'm funny and I'm crazy. We make dinner, she helps cook a lot so that's fun, we often make a craft or play a board game or three. And the highlight is breaking out the lazer light for the cats (yes I have two, if I had a house I'd be the crazy cat lady, but not like the one on the Simpsons. Actually... More like a Dr. Doolittle... I've had loads of various animals since I was a kid) and feeling blessed. But at the same time wishing for someone special to curl up with and talk, share and have wild moments with behind closed doors.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have some health hiccups, like the migraines and that's caused other issues. I have anxiety about ice and those are the biggest issues that are negatives, but I still live life, don't give up and don't eat a bowl full of tranquilizers and thorazine for breakfast so I'd say I'm doing ok still...

And some private things, So with health issues I'm disabled. I am NOT just someone 'livin off the sytem so they don't have to work'. I can't help my body cooperate with my mind. I like working, and not just volunterring my time. (Which in itself is rewarding) I aspire to do more and have ongoing training to help me find that nitche.

Now for somethingnot so. 'Dreary'
I've worked all aspects of the adult Entertainment Industry...except on my back. So I have pleanty of interestesing stories and experiances.
You should message me if
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You got through this all without wanting to bang ur head against a desk... fallen asleep... decided u needed several drinks to finish reading this novel,...and have sense of humor!!! If you are openminded and at least have a gut feeling of oooh.. I should SO talk to her, and want to actually hold a conversation longer than single sentence replies. (There should be a part in this that reads you should'nt message me if...)(You call me Babe or say I would rather text you what's ur #, or say u should marry me in the first sentence. Really gents? I am not easy, I have a brain and self respect. Also the age range ur looking for if ur looking for someone in their 20's and ur in ur mid 30's please don't message me, same goes for the over age 40. I think that more than a 4yr way either way is problematic) if your SERIOUS about finding the right person to enter a real Courtship with.