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Hello out there...Glad you could stop by to read my stuff...I'm just here to meet new people, take each day as it comes, and enjoy life on a daily basis....Goals??....Of course I have goals in life...I'm sure all of you have goals too...but do I really want to share everything about myself right here on the front page...no..not necessarily....Spend a little time chatting with someone before you cast judgment on pictures and little blocks of text....Thanks for stopping by... now got time for a chat??

I am looking for a more committed relationship some time in my future. But I'd like to think you have to start by being friends first, going slowly, getting to know each other, then seeing where it develops. There has to be some kind of chemistry between the two of you at first meeting. At this age, I don't think it takes 2 people very long to figure out whether or not they can pursue a relationship with each other.

I am a touchy, cuddle, kissing type person who loves to be reciprocated as well. I enjoy the outdoors, enjoy sports of all kinds, love animals, admire and adore nature, too. I love being around people. I would say that is one of my biggest attributes, is that I am a people-person. I hold high morals and values in my life and have reared my son that way as well. These are just some of the personal highlights I thought you might like to know about me.

I am enjoying and living life to the fullest every day.

After all we will not be here forever.

Yes I have been married two times. First time, I was widowed a few years ago when my 40 year old husband passed away from Non-seminoma Testicular Cancer. I remarried and now I am divorced.

I do have one child and he is 19 years old now. I love children and wanted about 4 or 5 of them, but just didn't get the chance to have anymore after my son. He broke the "mold" so to speak when I had him.

What am I doing with my life, moving ahead and not looking back...I have no regrets.

I'm really good at just being myself. There are many things I enjoy doing.

I'd say that I am quite good at several things around the house and think of myself as a "Jane of all Trades".

I enjoy fixing things, landscaping, painting, working on my cars when I have to, and cooking.

I really miss working in my garage as I no longer have one now that I own a much smaller place. But I still find an area to tinker from time to time.

I love to cook, especially on the grill.

The first thing people usually notice about me is that I am very expressive and my eyes show they care.

My body is athletic type.

I have long blond hair down to my bra strap in back.

I have very strong legs, small butt, strong healthy arms, and good back muscles. Oh Yeah..and a little chesty too.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food are too many to put in this little box. I just thrive on variety. I am easy going and like a mixture of different types. Why stay with one particular range of music or movie type?

As for movies, I enjoy Comedy, horror, and Sci-Fi the most. I thoroughly enjoy British humor too, like Monty Python and Bennie Hill stuff.

During the 1980's, as a hobby, my late husband and I worked as in-house roadies for Ray Carroll for some of his night clubs, The Switch, Roadies, and The Ritz. We also worked for some bands on the side at places in Chapel Hill at "He's Not Here" and The Mad Monk in Wilminton. We did lights and sound for many well known bands such as, White Lion, Romantics, Nazareth, Joan Jett and the Blackhearts, MadamX, Sidewinder, Glassmoon, The Control Group, KIX, Nantucket, PKM, 38 Special, Outfield, Max Warrior, and many more. In the 1990's we worked for The Embers for about 3 years. I love all kinds of music, just not too fond of rap.

(1) air
(2) water
(3) food
(4) sex
(5) family
(6) friends

But not necessarily in any particular order...

I spend a lot of time thinking about how this day went by too fast! Just kidding...

I spend a great deal of my time thinking about my future goals and trying to plan ahead in life.

On a typical Friday night I might be going for a walk, possibly visiting family or friends, grilling out on my deck or just curled up reading a good book.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here is that I really enjoy lots and loads of sex with the right person, and that I am truly comfortable with who I am and my body.