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Hectorial

31 M Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:40am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
If I had to describe myself I would use words like fluid, funny, sociable, optimistic, and respectful. The problem, like Kierkegaard well pointed out, is that we’re bound to see our life backwards, while living it forwards; kind of like driving while looking at the rear-view mirror only.
I've always traveled light, trying not to take anything for granted, while being grateful for what I’ve lived.
As I get older I have learned to appreciate my finite time and the moment that I live in. I try to encompass my professional life with creative endeavors; one fine day both will be the same :)
I grew up in Latinamerica, land of trees, fantasies, chaos, raw nature, contradictions, violence, emotions. I have a nostalgic soul, filled with memories of blood and gold, trumpets and drums as the sun sets. A myriad of rococo, baroque and modern images, with a tropical background. I don't know how not to enjoy and savor everything; I think I'm a voyeurist of life.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning & experiencing. Enjoying how lucky I am to live in this amazing place.
I work for the executive team of a VC on serious time. Then I dream, write, paint, party, dance, enjoy life (on busy days, work emails haunt me but I'm learning how to set boundaries).
I’m really good at
I have all the patience in the world, which may contribute to me being a good listener (my friends claim that I am).
Turning a conversation into an epistemological study. Truly it's ok to stop me if you don't want to hear about Descartes' view on why you prefer vegan tacos over carne asada.
The first things people usually notice about me
Ya, people stop talking when I walk into a bar. Some drop their beers, women take off their bras and throw them at me... nah, I don't think people even know that I'm alive haha.
But if I talk to someone, I'm sure they'll notice my accent.
Ok, really, I've been told I have a great smile and a great butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My all time favorite is Borges. But I like Mario Benedetti, Roberto Bolaño, Jose Saramago, Slavoj Zizek, Isaac Asimov, Michel Foucault, Jean Baudrillard, amongst others.
I love cinema noire. I'm a sucker for Almodovar films but I love movies in general... even those by Woody Allen.
Even though I've been listening to electronica almost exclusively for the last 5 years, I appreciate any good music. I don't quite relate to the nostalgia for folk or country music tho... But I grew up listening to Liszt, Rachmaninov, Dvorak, Brahms, Chopin, Vivaldi. My favorites (and I know its a bit cliche) are the baroque composers.
I love trying new food but I crave fruits and vegetables. That said, I could live off Indian or Thai food forever.
The six things I could never do without
Clean air, hope, good friends, laughs, my bike!, trees
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to teach my dog to stop begging for food, I really think she will never give up.
The task/project at hand and what's next.
The next place that I want to go travel to.
How to be more productive with my time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having a beer with my friends, making dinner at home, watching a movie, it depends...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This would be the perfect question for you to ask me!! Seriously, if you read this far, send me a message, I'm just like you... well, hopefully a little hairier ;)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are a good bike rider or would like to be,
You enjoy a good philosophical conversation or would like to have one,
You love yourself lol (no, really, you probably should love yourself)