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HedonistPoet

32 / m / straight / Single

Madison, Wisconsin, United States

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Ethnicity Hispanic / Latin, White

Height 5' 8" (1.72m).

Looking For New friends, Short-term dating, Casual encounters (sex partners)

Smokes No

Drinks Often

Drugs N/A

Religion Atheism but not too serious about it

Sign Sagittarius and it's fun to think about

Education Working on college/university

Job Artistic / Musical / Writer

Income $20,000-$30,000

Kids Likes children, but doesn't want any

Pets N/A

Languages English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary

Debauchery. Wit. Charm. Coffee. If these words interest you, read on...

I was a student, decided to not be, and am one again, after much gallivanting about. I'm a poet, a slut, a genius, and a fool. Right now I write for money, with extra grants, scholarships, and loans making up the rest of my "income". When I'm not writing, I try to pass the time with diversions like flirtation and caffeine. I love indulging in sex, romance, and the company of good friends. Be bold and write me...

Also, I realize this area is supposed to be a SELF-summary, but my dear friend grace_too would like to jump in for just a moment to inform you that I'm big in Japan. It's true.

What I'm doing with my life

I'm hunting down the American Dream with my lawyer friend. Oh, wait. That was a movie I saw. I'm excited about finishing up school instead of grinding it out at a shitty day job. I get to have fun with some wonderful friends between trying to hit my deadlines for writing geeky articles and silly assignments.

I'm really good at

Coming up with a great idea; talking about nearly anything; having fun; giving people insights about the people in their life; putting words together nice; and speaking of nice, nice shoes...

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

I would imagine this would completely depend on what people tend to perceive. I, for example, notice hair, walk, and talk. Maybe they'll notice my personable attitude or my sarcasm. Maybe my bold glasses or my ass. Who knows.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite books? How about authors? Kundera, Vachss, and Card.

Movies? Good lord. Why not just ask me about which organs are my favorites?

Music? Well, last.fm tells me that my most listened to music of this year is, in order: PJ Harvey, Bishop Allen, Tom Waits, Heavy Vegetable, Pixies, Liz Phair, Nine Inch Nails, Pinback, Depeche Mode, Screamin' Cyn Cyn and the Pons, Faith No More, Billie Holiday, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Thingy, Alice in Chains, Ani DiFranco, The White Stripes, Amy Winehouse, Awesome Car Funmaker, Johnny Cash, Beastie Boys, Regina Spektor, The Beatles, Morphine, RJD2, Angelo Badalamenti, and Beck.

Food? See movies. I do enjoy me a nice Pad Thai, though...

The six things I could never do without

Having a home (in the sense of 'where the heart is'), the company I keep, my computer, cards, pen, paper, and my wits.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I would be able to accomplish if procrastination wasn't so hard-wired into me. And lately, whether or not to try for grad school. Stupid thinking.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out with friends playing cards, out in a bar, lazing in bed with good food and a movie... basically anywhere where one might find good company...

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

My AIM nick is HedonistPoet as well. I once was mistakenly believed to be a secret agent, and had adventures that ranged from the UN Building in NYC to Mount Rushmore. Oh, wait... That was a movie I saw, nevermind.

You should message me if

Your excellent knowledge of social rules let's you know just how to break them. You are the kind of person that views yourself as a stand-out. You are smart and can be challenging without being obstinate. You like to spend time pleasing yourself in any number of ways. You could see yourself getting involved with someone seriously, but don't expect it from day one. You could see yourself getting involved with someone casually, but don't rule out matters of the heart. Queer-identified is a huge plus. And if you rock, that is a good reason as well...

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Looking for:

- strong guts (that act) - warm heart (that feels) - bright eyes (that see) - sharp mind (that whirrs) - hot loins (that need)

Hopefully, all in the same package. (others may apply)

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