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HeffKiwi

26 / m / straight / Single

Southampton, Pennsylvania, United States

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Ethnicity White

Height 6' 1" (1.85m).

Looking For New friends, Long-term dating

Smokes No

Drinks Rarely

Drugs Never

Religion Catholicism and somewhat serious about it

Sign Cancer and it's fun to think about

Education Working on college/university

Job Student

Income $0-$20,000

Kids Likes children

Pets Owns dogs and Likes cats

Languages English

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My self-summary

After 26 years of living, I have confidently established a firm foundation of principles that define who I am. This is not to say that I am not still learning, because I am, on a daily basis, and I am always open to new thoughts and ideas. In fact, I welcome them! After many years of introspective growth, I am reaching a point in life where I am yearning to find and share a deep connection with someone. I am ready and willing to try new things in an effort to hopefully escape the monotony of my comfort zone. I wholly believe that I can provide a sorce of happiness to some special someone out there, along with a sense of safety and security. I am in the early stages of working towards a good future, and hope to one day be a successful accountant that can provide for a loving family. It gets much deeper, but that will take some more time if anyone out there is interested...

What I'm doing with my life

I am currently a student studying accounting at Temple University. I am not as ambitious as I would like, but I think I am just waiting to find that special someone to share my life experiences with before I finally spread my wings and fly!

I'm really good at

Analyzing situations and finding solutions to problems. I am good at listening and being a shoulder to cry on when situations feel desperate or hopeless. (I've sure had my fair share of support along the way!)

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

I am fairly tall at 6'1", and usually can be pretty quiet. I would believe that these are my two most defining physical qualities.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love to read, and always have a book. I am open to mostly anything, fiction or non-fiction, but my taste usually edges towards historical studies and political intrigue. I find tremendous strength and growth from reading about the pivotal wars and events that helped to shape America. Tom Clancy is easily one of my heroes!

My all-time favorite movie is "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind." The gritty nature of the love connection, and the realistic precision in which the powerful emotions are portrayed is perfected by the brilliantly, artful storytelling. That movie really struck a chord, but it was the second time through when it first hit me! I was amazed the first time I saw "Saving Private Ryan," especially the first scene when the United States troops storm the beaches at Normandy, and feel truly grateful for all that I have when I see how bravely they sacrificed. Beyond that, I love everything from "The Lord of the Rings," to "City of God," to "Braveheart." The list goes on and on...

Some of the most inspirational people in my life are the members of the band "Dream Theater." Their music and professionalism has quite literally shaped a large portion of my outlook on life. I love them greatly, and they are heroes! I crave talent when it comes to music, and look for depth and beauty in the writing.

I love to cook, especially on the grill, and am open to try anything once... Other than that, food is food and it isn't all that important to me.

The six things I could never do without

- My Family, for sure!
- Friendship.
- Something to read.
- Music. (Dream Theater)
- Michael Savage
- Freedom

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I just spend a lot of time thinking. Too much sometimes. It has helped immensely, but I wish I spent more time spontaneously acting on my thoughts! (Although on a whim, I did quit my job and drive across the country, which was an amazing experience!)

I think about the 'War on Terror' a ton, and the effect it has on our lives. It usually takes precedent over most of my thoughts. I think alot about life in general.

I should spend more time thinking about my future, but it's a difficult undertaking when there isn't anyone to share it with... yet...

On a typical Friday night I am

These days, I am not usually doing much. Every once in a while I make the trip to my brother's house, which is always a good time.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

I've had a DUI incident which I am deeply ashamed of, and have made many changes in my life because of it! I have grown away from such unacceptable behavior, and completely understand the way that story could have ended!

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