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Hefner116

25 / m / straight / Single

Wallingford, Connecticut, United States

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Ethnicity White

Height 6' 0" (1.82m).

Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual encounters (sex partners)

Smokes When drinking

Drinks Sometimes

Drugs N/A

Religion Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it

Sign Capricorn

Education Working on college/university

Job Executive / Management

Income $40,000-$50,000

Kids Likes children

Pets N/A

Languages English

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My self-summary

I want to meet a girl who knows how to treat a man.

No fake personalities please.

I love to love, live, and take it easy. However, I also like to stay active and break a sweat.

I'm very social, outgoing and sensual. I am organized chaos.

I want to miss out on as little as I can in my life....as far as money allows anyway. :)

What I'm doing with my life

I'm currently working on a degree in business and who knows where that will take me.

For work, I bartend at the new Red Lobster in North Haven. I love it. The people I work with are really fun and easy going; even the managers.

I'm really good at

Procrastinating, making money, being romantic, providing comfort and support if it's needed, and having a good time.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

My eyes and my smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music: A little of everything, a lot of rock, electronica, hip-hop, some rap. I've been meaning to make this section more specific like the movies....but yeah about that procrastination thing :)

Movies: Robin Hood Men in Tights, Eyes Wide Shut, Tim Burton films, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Run Lola Run, Edward Scissor Hands, Fight Club, Nightmare Before Christmas, Ed Wood, anything with John Malkovich in it, Star Wars (all of them), The Matrix Trilogy, Indiana Jones, What Dreams May Come, The Labyrinthe, Pan's Labyrinthe, 300, Party Monster, Underworld, Underworld Evolution, Resident evil, The chronnicals of Riddick, Pitch Black, Nosferatu, War of the Worlds, Thirteen, The Butterfly Effect, I-Robot, Sleepy Hallow, Blade, The fifth element, The phantom of the Opera, Constantine, Interview with a Vampire, The Skeleton Key, Crash, the Ninth Gate, The Crow, A Clockwork Orange, American History X, The Craft, The Mothman Prophecies, The Texas Chainsaw Massacre (new and original versions), Tomb Raider, White Noise, Darkness Falls, Shakespeare in Love, The Last Samurai, King Arthur, 1408, Across the Universe, Shawshank Redemption, The Lord of the Rings, The Count of Monte Christo, Requiem for a Dream, Flight of the Navigator, V for Vendetta, Stand by Me, Snatch, Pirates of the Caribbean, Harry Potter, Mr. Brooks, Bruce Campbell Vs. the Army of Darkness, Shaun of the Dead, Monty Python's Meaning of Life, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Life of Brian, The Hobbit (cartoon), About A Boy, Love Actually, The Notebook, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Goonies, Billy Maddison, Super Troopers, Lost In Translation, Dodgeball, Harold and Kumar Go to White Castle, Immortal Beloved, Knocked Up, Superbad, The Shining, Full Metal Jacket, Almost Famous, Magnolia, American Beauty, High Fidelity, Stranger Than Fiction, The Doors, A Scanner Darkly, Easy Rider, Trainspotting, Big Fish, Boogie Nights, Kung Fu Hustle, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Children of Men, Pulp Fiction, Reservoir Dogs, L.A. Confidential, The Usual Suspects, Pan's Labyrinth, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Taxi Driver, The Awakening, Hard Candy, Enemy at the Gates, Cruel Intentions, Wedding crashers, Tommy Boy, A knight's tale, Goodwill Hunting, Saving Private Ryan, Billy Madison, Remember the titans, Pearl Harbor, The Mummy, Unbreakable, Shallow Hal, Roadtrip, American Gangster,...(Sorry if I duplicate any and I will add more as I get the energy to do so)

Food: I love all kinds of food...I love to cook. I especially love sushi and sashimi, sake, Italian food, Mexican food, I LOVE wine and beer that actually tastes like something worth drinking.

TV Shows: Family Guy, Spike TV, Food Network...especially Alton Brown, Take Home Chef, Iron Chef, Food Network Challange), Discovery Channel, MXC, UFC, WEC, Nip/Tuck, House, Dirty Jobs, Futurama, Cash Cab (every time I go to NY I scan cabs looking for it by it's ID numbers 1G12 lol)

The six things I could never do without

In no particular order: Food, Love, Money, A Computer, Music, and a social life.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Fun things to do with friends, what I'm doing for the week, how much money I have and what can I do with it, what my future holds.

On a typical Friday night I am

I'm usually out somewhere having a good time but I also like to relax at home sometimes. I might be at a nightclub, karaoke, a friends house, possibly chilling at home watching a movie or TV or doing something spontanious.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

I don't have a good relationship with my father...he was an alcoholic for most of my young life.

As a bartender, there are many reasons I like it including the fact that I have control over a part of life that he does not. It's my way of conquering what's in my past. Every drink I pour for customers, friends, or for myself is one more celebration of that power.

You should message me if

You're a fun, interesting, intelligent, beautiful, under 35 and an open-minded girl. If you have a pretty smile and eyes to match. If you can hang with the boys but still know how to be an elegant and/or sexy woman. If you're awesome, if you're interested in me and if you're looking for someone to make you forget about all the creeps out there. :)

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