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Helios77

32 / M / gay / Single

San Jose, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Rather not say
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am chill, geeky, and affectionate.

My Self-Summary

I'm a 32yr old looking for love and companionship. I work in retail full-time...and I do mean full-time...so free time is rare for me. I enjoy going out on occasion, but I prefer having quiet nights at home (well...maybe not so quiet if certain activities are taking place. ^_~). I'm a very easy going person, but can have a bit of a wild streak and I'm also looking for that in my mate. I want someone who's independent...who has his own life along with the life that we would build together. Someone who has his own job and could survive on his own. I do have a habit of being a little shy at first...so don't be surprised if I don't have a lot to say when we first meet....it's just my shyness kicking in a preventing me from finding things to say. On the other hand I'm a great listener and am always available if you need to vent or need a shoulder to cry on. I'm a very romantic person and I want someone who also has that romantic side (i.e. bringing me flowers, candlelit dinners, walks on the beach, etc). I'm not too particular on looks, though I do prefer a guy with hair, short or long, just as long as I can run my fingers through it. I also have a weakness for guys with light colored eyes (blue, green, hazel, etc). Also....you must be a good kisser...I don't like it when guys try to eat my face when they kiss. I've been trying to be more active and to get in some kind of shape, but it's hard to be motivated when you don't know what you're doing and you're doing it on your own...so if you're also looking for a work out partner, I'm up for it.

I'm also a bit of a geek...I love sci-fi and fantasy(star trek, lotr, harry potter, x-men, and doctor who just to name a few). Another thing that is a must with me is that you have to enjoy going to Disneyland or Walt Disney World....I'm telling you now that I'm a bit of a Disney geek. I was raised on it and my family has been going to the parks at least once a year for Disneyland and once every 5 years for WDW and I love it. So if you are looking for someone who's extremely loyal, who's also independent and who won't be emotionally clingy, then lets get together and get to know each other more.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I'm just working...trying to earn a living in this expensive area known as the silicon valley.
~~and taking care of the Cutest, and Fattest Kitty, in the whole wide world! :-P ~~

Editors

I’m really good at

I can't really say that on here, but I'll gladly tell you in person. ^_~...j/k. I'm a good listener and am always willing to lend my shoulder for people to cry on or vent. I've also been told I'm a good kisser and that I'm great to cuddle with....and I do love cuddling, there's nothing more relaxing that cuddling with someone and running our fingers through each other's hair. I'm also good at giving back scratches....and I also love to receive them too.

The first things people usually notice about me

the first thing people notice about me is how easy it is to open up to me....I guess I have an aura of trust about me. I am very easy to talk to and I will devote all my attention to what they are saying and give advice if I have it to give.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies: I tend to like fantasy/sci-fi stuff (I'm a geek...what can I say) like; all the Star Trek movies, LOTR, Harry Potter, all the X-Men, classic Disney animated movies (Sleeping Beauty is my fav), Sweeney Todd (pretty much anything by Tim Burton), The Chronicles of Narnia, & Pirates of the Caribbean

Books: The Chronicles of Narnia, LOTR, anything by Stephen King, Harry Potter, Alice's Adventures in Wonderland & Through the Looking Glass, & Wicked

Music: I love all kinds of music, though I don't really care for hardcore rap or metal....but here's a small list of some artist I do like; Stevie Nicks (My absolute fav), Fleetwood Mac, Sarah Brightman, Morrissey, The Smiths, Depeche Mode, Enya, Madonna, Tori Amos, The Scissor Sisters & ABBA (that's right...I love ABBA)....also have been enjoying The Killers more and more lately and really diggin Lady Gaga right now too.

Food: I like all kinds of food and I'm willing to try new things, but I love Japanese, Chinese, Mexican, Italian, Celtic and good ol'fashioned American

The six things I could never do without

music, friends, kissing, love, sex, & coffee

I spend a lot of time thinking about

my future

On a typical Friday night I am

WORKING!!!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm pretty much an open book...I'll tell people anything they want to know...so there's nothing private about me.

You should message me if

you want to be friends, chat or if you're interested in dating.