[Please be sure to read the paragraph at the bottom - "You should message me if..."]

I AM:
... a New Yorker with a bit of southern style.
... an actor/director/producer in an indie theater company.
... a hopeful romantic, with a sincere passion for life, bounteous energy & loyal dedication.
... successful in two realms (artist/entertainer; perfume purveyor).
... ready to settle into (but not "down with" or "for") adoring one wonderful woman and maybe making a small family.
... very much at home in hotel, hostel, or house of friend & family.
... a Monkey, in the Chinese Zodiac of animals.
... a great guy (so gal friends tell me).
... not actually 45.
... polymorphic (and living the Holstee Manifesto).
... a playful lover.
... politically, philosophically and purposefully liberal.
... a clown - sometimes professionally.
... a busy guy with big dreams and enough drive, daring & talent to make them come true - so far, anyway.

I HAVE:
... acted in, directed, produced, designed and/or crewed for, or administrated, more plays than I can remember.
... a lifetime gym membership.
... been published in the New York Times. Twice.
... a 30% discount at my day job (self-employed, high-end P.O.S. promoter).
... been to ten or more countries.
... a rent-stabilized 2BR walk-up in Hell’s Kitchen (there’s a cool roof and the city’s building a new school across the street - but I’m getting ahead of myself).
... recently launched an extraordinary & costly new French perfume.
... done almost everything I set out to do in life - and a few I didn't.
... written a little book on metaphysics, some songs & a play or two.
... no debt.

... playing my ukulele.
... working with tools, paint, wood & electricity.
... creating in the kitchen.
... experimenting in the bedroom.
... hunting household vermin.
... hanging with kids.
... practical philosophy.
... entertaining the masses.
... getting things done.
... kissing boo-boos.

Youthful Energy
Optimism
Wit
Curiosity
Heart
Manners

Reading Material: Sci-Fi (the real stuff) & non-fiction, daily NYTimes, The New Yorker.
Big Screen: Action, Adventure, Animation.
Small Screen: Daily Show/Colbert, TED, anything admirable (I don't own a TV - online only.)
The Legitimate Theater, or other live entertainment.
Music: No preference, but into anything live (Jazz, bluegrass, LES indie) or whatever the lady likes. Really, I'm that easy when it comes to music.
Most widely-known song I've written:
"Marching Down to Wall Street", for Occupy Wall Street.
Food: Omnivore, not a Foodie.

People
Joy
Imagination
NYTimes every day
Strawberry Jam

The future.
Oh, and sex.

Rehearsing or seeing a play. The occasional dance party on Saturday.

I'd really like to be a House Husband / Mr. Mom.

... you're interested in being a partner and willing to be adored.
... you live in NYC (or want to) and plan to stay here a while (and hopefully raise a child).
... you can have fun and be responsible.
... you have a somewhat stable career (one of us should - mine is "coming together").
... you have a healthy body, capable mind and generous heart.
... you get the "in between the lines" stuff.
... you love to dance.
... you don't have kids - yet.
... you're SO okay with a youthful, mature man.
... you know the difference between a paddle and an oar.
... you've gotten this far in my profile.
... you want me to ask you out. (Chances are, I will.)

[In short, the ball is now in your court. A wink is enough. Like eye contact across a dance floor, a little encouragement from you can start something magical. I will be a gent about messaging you back. If you've visited my profile and don't message or wink, that's a tacit "no thanks" - you'll only hear from me if I find you irresistible. Really.]