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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Some of my friends consider me to be a polymath. Others consider me a walking reference book. I am just a curious guy.

I am a classical musician by training and express my art through music composition, music arranger, performance as a singer (bass), instrumentalist, and as a conductor.

Other arts that I am passionate about include cuisine (see photos), architecture, painting, opera, theater, sculpture, gardening to name a few. I also enjoy riding my bicycle, boating, sports cars and sports car racing (I have done that), some forms of social dance, home improvement and styling, learning new things.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am active in music performing and directing with several ensembles, and composing music. I am currently working on compositions for chorus, smaller ensembles, and a piece for symphony orchestra.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Home repair
Designing things
Being creative
Being funny
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hey, no comb over!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books; The Art of Racing in the Rain, Outliers, Various books about Frank Lloyd Wright, Audi TT service manual.

Movies; Shawshank Redemption, West Side Story, Office Space, Idiocracy (so incredibly stupid that it is a stupid way), The Party (Peter Sellers), The Green Mile, Mars Attacks, Best in Show, Fargo, A Mighty Wind, The Big Lebowski

Shows; Iron Chef, Hell's Kitchen, Baking With Julia, This Old House, Hometime, Person of Interest, Hawaii 5-0 (makes me wistful), My Classic Car, Great Performances

The music I listen to, and make; ALL classical music, but especially modern classical. Jazz, especially free jazz. Rock music that is not too constrained by its own conservative nature. Country music that has no aspirations towards commercial indulgence, or country music that is really old. Old country music sounds best to my ears when played on an old radio on a hot and dusty day. Any music that has historical and/or cultural real significance.

Food; French! Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, Cuban, Italian, Indian! Mexican, Greek, Spanish!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*My artistic sense
*My friends
*My cookware
*My knives (cooking knives, not weapons. I am not crazy, I'll have you know)
*Money (at least an adequate amount of it)
*My health

Also.... six things I could certainly do without;
*Clownburger; aka McDonalds (It's a ketchup based cuisine)
*Obstructionist politicians
*Stupid and useless cooking gadgets like Salad Shooter, Fry Daddy, Slap Chopper, and just about anything under the Ronco or Popiel brand names.
*Fake wood, fake stone, fake ceramic
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music to compose, past compositions and new ways to express my ideas, architecture to somehow express, design, the meaning and myth of religion and ceremony in society.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, or alone at a concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I hate ketchup. And woodpeckers. And wasps. Fake wood. Fake food. Fake cheese. I guess I am just a hateful man..... in a loving kind of way, and glad I can choose to have no ketchup.
You should message me if
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...if you hate ketchup too!!.... or if anything else in my profile piques your interest.

Please note that I have had serious relationships with ketchup eaters, so you can enjoy ketchup and we could still be a match! Just do not expect me to share that passion with you.

I draw the line at smothering your pancakes with ketchup.