Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've answered so many site questions - I just don't wanna summarize
myself in some blurb. I'm not launching a product. This isn't my
Need to know? I'm a good guy. I make mistakes like we all do but
I'm never malicious.
More than that? Ask questions if you need to. But let's try and
avoid interviews. Let's have a conversation. Isn't discovering
someone's personality and getting to know them all part of the fun?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for a great company of highly creative intelligent people
who humble and inspire me everyday. We build websites and digital
experiences for companies and brands you use and interact with all
the time. It's pretty exciting and I dig it.
Hopped around a bit before becoming a "professional" so I'm a
little late to the game. But I've had great experiences I wouldn't
trade just to be a few years ahead. So now I'm getting caught up
and getting my ducks lined up.
Excited about where I am and hoping to find some friends or someone
special to cheer on and who will be a big fan of mine in return.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sleeping. Like a champ. Strictly ammature though. Could never go
pro on account of insomnia - I have trouble falling asleep. But
when I'm out, I'm out. Kind of makes me a zombie and not a prime
candidate for morning sex. But if you've got a lazy rainy Sunday
afternoon where you wanna stay curled up in bed swapping spoon
positions, baby, I'm your man.
The first things people usually notice about me
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A) I'm cuter in person.
What's with digital cameras and that delay? How do you expect me to
hold this smile so long? And that pre flash makes me blink every
time! And if I don't blink it requires such effort that I look like
the proverbial deer in headlights.
Take a candid shot when I'm not paying attention? Awesome. I'm all
for it. But no. Everyone wants you to look at the camera, put your
arm around someone else and pose. I can't do it. I'm sorry.
B) I smell nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Where The Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak, Bone by Jeff Smith,
American Gods by Neil Gaiman, and The Fountainhead by Ayn
Contact, Six Degrees of Separation, Singin' in the Rain, the Lord
of the Rings trilogy, the Toy Story trilogy, and the Original Star
Wars trilogy (Jar Jar Binks can suck it and Han shot first)
Friday Night Lights, Futurama, Battlestar Galactica, Fringe, Modern
Family, Community, Chuck, Big Bang Theory, Twin Peaks, Lost, and
any science show about space, astronomy, or astrophysics
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
So long as things are really things and we're not talking about
family and friends and similar beauty pageant answers I'm gonna
have to go with: paper and pencils, Lipton Pure Leaf Black Iced Tea
with Lemon (write that down) my iPhone and iMac, the white noise of
a fan when I fall asleep, and long hot showers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oh my god. Everything. Anything. Classic ruminating insomniac. It's
hard for me to shut down sometimes and I can get really focused or
But on the other hand I'm also really good at just being in the
moment and not thinking at all. Just, ya know, breathing it all in.
I'm often asked, if I'm in a particularly happy or content place,
"What are you thinking about?" and the answer is a genuine,
Some will argue that you can't be thinking nothing. That you've
gotta be thinking something. But I strongly disagree. You can think
about nothing from time to time and it can be pretty amazing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Okay. Full disclosure... I'm shy, I'm quiet, and I'm a geek. Many
Friday nights are just spent decompressing after the work week.
Relaxing. Catching up on Hulu and staying put. It's not glamorous
but I dig it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Like a private behavior or a gross habit? I blow my nose in the
shower. Deal with it.
Private worry or fear? I'm a good guy. I have no doubt about that.
In fact I'm kind of a great guy. But I'm layered and I'm subtle. I
don't hit you over the head. And I'm afraid that the right guy is
gonna miss me if he doesn't take the time to notice.
You should message me if
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