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Helo_79

35 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:47pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've answered so many site questions - I just don't wanna summarize myself in some blurb. I'm not launching a product. This isn't my press release.

Need to know? I'm a good guy. I make mistakes like we all do but I'm never malicious.

More than that? Ask questions if you need to. But let's try and avoid interviews. Let's have a conversation. Isn't discovering someone's personality and getting to know them all part of the fun?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for a great company of highly creative intelligent people who humble and inspire me everyday. We build websites and digital experiences for companies and brands you use and interact with all the time. It's pretty exciting and I dig it.

Hopped around a bit before becoming a "professional" so I'm a little late to the game. But I've had great experiences I wouldn't trade just to be a few years ahead. So now I'm getting caught up and getting my ducks lined up.

Excited about where I am and hoping to find some friends or someone special to cheer on and who will be a big fan of mine in return.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sleeping. Like a champ. Strictly ammature though. Could never go pro on account of insomnia - I have trouble falling asleep. But when I'm out, I'm out. Kind of makes me a zombie and not a prime candidate for morning sex. But if you've got a lazy rainy Sunday afternoon where you wanna stay curled up in bed swapping spoon positions, baby, I'm your man.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A) I'm cuter in person.

What's with digital cameras and that delay? How do you expect me to hold this smile so long? And that pre flash makes me blink every time! And if I don't blink it requires such effort that I look like the proverbial deer in headlights.

Take a candid shot when I'm not paying attention? Awesome. I'm all for it. But no. Everyone wants you to look at the camera, put your arm around someone else and pose. I can't do it. I'm sorry.

B) I smell nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:

Where The Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak, Bone by Jeff Smith, American Gods by Neil Gaiman, and The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand

Movies:

Contact, Six Degrees of Separation, Singin' in the Rain, the Lord of the Rings trilogy, the Toy Story trilogy, and the Original Star Wars trilogy (Jar Jar Binks can suck it and Han shot first)

TV:

Friday Night Lights, Futurama, Battlestar Galactica, Fringe, Modern Family, Community, Chuck, Big Bang Theory, Twin Peaks, Lost, and any science show about space, astronomy, or astrophysics
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
So long as things are really things and we're not talking about family and friends and similar beauty pageant answers I'm gonna have to go with: paper and pencils, Lipton Pure Leaf Black Iced Tea with Lemon (write that down) my iPhone and iMac, the white noise of a fan when I fall asleep, and long hot showers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oh my god. Everything. Anything. Classic ruminating insomniac. It's hard for me to shut down sometimes and I can get really focused or contemplative.

But on the other hand I'm also really good at just being in the moment and not thinking at all. Just, ya know, breathing it all in. I'm often asked, if I'm in a particularly happy or content place, "What are you thinking about?" and the answer is a genuine, "Nothing."

Some will argue that you can't be thinking nothing. That you've gotta be thinking something. But I strongly disagree. You can think about nothing from time to time and it can be pretty amazing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Okay. Full disclosure... I'm shy, I'm quiet, and I'm a geek. Many Friday nights are just spent decompressing after the work week. Relaxing. Catching up on Hulu and staying put. It's not glamorous but I dig it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Like a private behavior or a gross habit? I blow my nose in the shower. Deal with it.

Private worry or fear? I'm a good guy. I have no doubt about that. In fact I'm kind of a great guy. But I'm layered and I'm subtle. I don't hit you over the head. And I'm afraid that the right guy is gonna miss me if he doesn't take the time to notice.
You should message me if
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I've said something that spoke to you and/or if you've got something to say.