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38 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more

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My self-summary
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"Dating is fun until someone gets shot or pregnant!"

It shouldn't be this hard to meet a good man or woman and be happy together, but since it is I put some time and effort into this to try and find a good match, even though I know most people just look at the pictures and make a decision.

My life is already fantastic, I am accomplishing my goals, and have amazing children, but there is no one to grow with and share my accomplishments and life's joys with. No one's hand to hold, no one to eat my cooking, no one to cuddle with, no one to sit next to me in the movies... I want a happy and healthy relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
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Attending college to receive my Master's/Doctorate, coaching, and helping people by volunteering and random acts of kindness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm great at telling jokes and stories.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing people notice about me is my beard, and my shoes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: I love movies... Coming to America, Heat, Shawshank Redemption, Good Fellas, Snatch, Boyz N the Hood, Menace II Society... Black Dynamite...

Shows: Orange is the New Black, Game of Thrones, Chopped, Supernatural, Sons of Anarchy, The Following, The First 48, Biggest Loser ("It's Biggest Loser time/It's Biggest Loser time/It's daddy's favorite show..."), The Walking Dead, New Girl, Snapped, The Big Bang Theory, The Wire, Bizarre Foods, The Boondocks, Love & Hip-Hop Atlanta (Stevie J!), Sports Center...

Music: Good music, mostly R&B and Rap... Old School, Jazz, Alternative, and Rock... Stevie Wonder, Anthony Hamilton, Wale, Jodeci, Floetry, Kanye West, Ice Cube, Eminem, Outkast, Omarion, Jhene Aiko, Rick Ross, August Alsina, Meek Mill...

Food is delicous! Food trucks, restaurant week, fusion, fine dining...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Cologne
2. Shoes (don't know what pair I would pick)
3. Wi-Fi
4. Family
5. Basketball shorts
6. Q-Tips
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about random things like life, and how everyone and everything is interconnected and dependendent each other for survival, and where is that car in front of me going...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy Hour and homework.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"Damn, I think I forgot the safe word..."
You should message me if
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You want to be treated like a lady, and laugh too.

...and I don't understand about the $200 dinners. I'm not cheap, but really? It seems shallow. If you do, you might be looking for a fool to take advantage of. That's not me... Someone messaged me and after exchanging a few messages, asked me to buy her a phone... "Wrong site...