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HerOwnHero

49 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Medicine
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Me? two words...

Quixotic ...Dichotomy

(Your milage may vary)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
-Being the hero of my own story
-Creating/Making/Baking
-Actively doing the Random Kindness thing
-Pursuing Personal Growth/education
-Reading fairly voraciously
-Geeking with abandon
-Being a passionista about all I pursue
-Plotting far flung adventures
-finding my calm center
-Walking 25+ miles a week with yoga sprinkles
-Dating

Oh you know, the usual...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Helping the underdog (or cat)
-Erring on the side of kindness
-Creating beautiful objects
-Baking cookies that generate a fan base
-kicking fibromyalgia's ass
-Spoiling those I care about
-Taking on large health insurance companies and winning (RAWR).
-Tweaking my profile
-Making bullet-pointed lists
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I was raised by wolves?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music:
My taste in music ranges from "you need to listen to this" to "I know, please don't judge me".

Books:
"Chewy sci/fi, complex fantasy, history, science, anthropology.....I am an information sponge.
... (Bukowski, Melville, Stephenson, Garcia Marquez....)

Podcasts (this is the media I absorb most):
Common Sense and Hardcore History (Dan Carlin)
RadioLab
Pseudopod, Escapepod, and Pod Castle
Best of the Left
This American Life

Movies:
Action Adventure, great animation, quirky drama

TV:
Deadwood
House of Cards
Archer

Food:
Meat and iron rich veggies
Caffeine (black tea if possible)
Really good chocolate
An occasional rum and coke, Bloody Mary, or Whiskey Sour, Good wine (currently learning what that is)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My daughter
-Wisdom
-Passion (in all its myriad forms)
-Sensuality (also in all it's forms)
-Love
-Caffeine
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Six things I CAN do without:
-Slower traffic that does not stay to the right
-decaffeinated anything
-Capers
-TV
-The Dentist (note: The dentist is my nemesis, thus I brush AND floss regularly)
-Zombies (especially zombie dentists).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Walking up to a stranger, handing them a briefcase and say, "You know what to do...", and then turn and walk away.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Galivanting as flagrantly as possible....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wrestle into submission the things I would prefer to shirk. If something stirs fear within me I turn and face it head on. Except skydiving. Oh and karaoke. Never karaoke.
You should message me if
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You're sapiosexual, an alpha male, have verve and aren't afraid to use it.

Required: You have a profile picture, you live local to Portland or Seattle and you're beyond your 20's.