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HerOwnHero

49 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:21pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Medicine
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Me? two words...

Quixotic ...Dichotomy
(your mileage may vary)
What I’m doing with my life
~Being the hero of my own story~

*Creating Art

*Sprinkling Random Kindness about

*Practicing Personal Growth

*Knitting/Baking

*Reading fairly voraciously

*Geeking with abandon

*Being a passionista about all I pursue

*finding my calm center (some situations require more deep cleansing breaths than others)

*Utilizing my managed care ninja skills to make the world a little safer from commercial health insurance companies

Oh you know, the usual...
I’m really good at
-Helping the underdog (or cat)
-Erring on the side of kindness
-Creating beautiful objects (portraits, block prints, silk painting, knitting, spinning yarn from rabbit fur...yada yada yada)
-Baking cookies that generate a fan base and constant pleas for repeat performances
-kicking fibromyalgia's ass
-Spoiling those I care about
-Spotting complex patterns in people and systems (it's a lesser known 'aspie' super-power)
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually my height, sometimes my hair, occasionally my eyes, and always that I was raised by wolves.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music:
My taste in music ranges from "you need to listen to this" to "I know, please don't judge me". (Today Th' Legendary Shack Shakers, "Where's the Devil When You Need Him?". How can you not love a lyric that cleverly massages in the word "phalanges"?

"The phalanges of St. Vitus
Were stricken with arthritis
So he lobbed them off and left them on the table."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vFHbgkr6vmk

Books:
"Chewy sci/fi, complex fantasy, history, science, anthropology.....and on. (Right now: Sandman Slim. As Gibson says, "the best B movies I've read in over 20 years.")

I am an information sponge.

Movies:
Action Adventure, great animation, quirky drama

TV:
Deadwood
House of Cards
Sons of Anarchy
Firefly
Archer
Walking Dead
the first four seasons of Babylon Five
(Currently smitten with Archer.... conflicted about "Archer Vice".)

Food:
Protein (preferably red meat or salmon), Caffiene (black tea if possible), good chocolate (no wax fillers, please), iron rich veggies, and an occasional rum and coke.
The six things I could never do without
-My daughter
-Wisdom (usually from philosophers, sometime song writers, and often my daughter)
-Passion (in all its myriad forms)
-Sensuality (also in all it's forms)
-Love
-Caffeine (usually black tea, sometimes a mocha frapp light)
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Six things I CAN do without:
-Slower traffic that does not stay to the right (this includes pedestrians)
-decaffienated anything (what is the point?)
-Capers
-TV (We had a nasty break up in the 90's)
-The Dentist (note: because the dentist is my nemisis, I brush AND floss regularly)
-Zombies (especially zombie dentists).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
She had blue skin,
And so did he.
He kept it hid
And so did she.
They searched for blue
Their whole life through,
Then passed right by-
And never knew.-Shel Silverstein
On a typical Friday night I am
Decompressing, flagrantly galavanting.... with a dash of adventure perhaps?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a chunk of the Berlin wall from the Eastern Side , before the wall came down. Shazaam!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You think we'd enjoy connecting over coffee/tea and want to have some local adventures together. (Bibliophile a plus)