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49 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:29pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Me? two words...

Quixotic ...Dichotomy
(your mileage may vary)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
~Being the hero of my own story~

*Creating Art

*Sprinkling Random Kindness about

*Practicing Personal Growth


*Reading fairly voraciously

*Geeking with abandon

*Being a passionista about all I pursue

*finding my calm center (some situations require more deep cleansing breaths than others)

*Utilizing my managed care ninja skills to make the world a little safer from commercial health insurance companies

Oh you know, the usual...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Helping the underdog (or cat)
-Erring on the side of kindness
-Creating beautiful objects (portraits, block prints, silk painting, knitting, spinning yarn from rabbit fur...yada yada yada)
-Baking cookies that generate a fan base and constant pleas for repeat performances
-kicking fibromyalgia's ass
-Spoiling those I care about
-Spotting complex patterns in people and systems (it's a lesser known 'aspie' super-power)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually my height, sometimes my hair, occasionally my eyes, and always that I was raised by wolves.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My taste in music ranges from "you need to listen to this" to "I know, please don't judge me". (Today: Morcheeba)

Undress me now

"Chewy sci/fi, complex fantasy, history, science, anthropology.....and on. (Right now: Sandman Slim. As Gibson says, "the best B movies I've read in over 20 years.")

I am an information sponge.

Action Adventure, great animation, quirky drama

House of Cards
Sons of Anarchy
Walking Dead
the first four seasons of Babylon Five
(Currently the next season of "Copper)

Protein (preferably red meat or salmon), Caffiene (black tea if possible), good chocolate (no wax fillers, please), iron rich veggies, and an occasional rum and coke, Bloody Mary, or Whiskey Sour, and when in season a tall mocha cookie crumble from Starbucks.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My daughter
-Wisdom (usually from philosophers, sometime song writers, and often my daughter)
-Passion (in all its myriad forms)
-Sensuality (also in all it's forms)
-Caffeine (usually black tea, sometimes a mocha frapp light)
Six things I CAN do without:
-Slower traffic that does not stay to the right (this includes pedestrians)
-decaffienated anything (what is the point?)
-TV (We had a nasty break up in the 90's)
-The Dentist (note: because the dentist is my nemisis, I brush AND floss regularly)
-Zombies (especially zombie dentists).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This week? Taking my daughter to see The Reverend Horton Heat. 'Cause I'm a great parent like that. Rawr.

Less frivolous concerns = science, physics, history, art, kindness, social justice, betterment (mental, physical and social), politics... And a veritable plethora of other juicy brain bending topics.

And hoping they write Daryl Dixon as a zombie ass kicking smoking hot red necked gay man.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A certain magic happens at 4pm on Friday as I sally forth from my place of employment. An entire world of opportunity lies in wait before me... The turn my galivanting can take is only predicated on who I'm doing it with.... Wait, correction, "flagrant galivanting"......
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I make my inner curmudgeon wear a mental ball-gag.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think sapiosexuality is a plus.
You have tales of exotic climes (bonus points for swahbuckling, swords, and general mayhem.)
You think everyone should have access to a dungeon.
You want to be Sandman Slim for Halloween (I'll be Candy Jade).
You have 'verve', and you aren't afraid to use it....
(You have a profile picture, 'cause "pictures or it didn't happen" and I only date locally.)