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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 30
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Buddhism and laughing about it
Post grad
Might want kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat), Mongolian (Somewhat), Tibetan (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Friends would describe me as fun, dependable, witty, hard working, tough, and funny with a dry sense of humor. I have a strong sense of self, and am easy going about most things, but quite impassioned about others.

I was born and raised in Wisconsin, and have lived in Asia for four years, including two years in a yurt in Mongolia while in the Peace Corps.

I'm smart, funny, and a mensch.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently working for the man while pursuing creative stuff on the side, and grateful to finally be in New York.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Far too many things -- especially listening, laughing, and making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Whatever hat I'm usually wearing, my blue eyes, and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've only been in NYC a year, so I don't have favorite food places yet. Love the Indian here though.

I love all music, especially indie rock and The Pixies. I don't watch much TV, except for 30 Rock, The Office, and South Park.

I watch a lot of movies, and recent favorites included Synecdoche NY, Moon, The White Ribbon, The Cove, Dogtooth, Tuesday After Christmas, and The Tree of Life.

I read a lot a book or two a week, and prefer heavier stuff: Ian McEwan, Christopher Hitchens, Cormac McCarthy, Kazuo Ishiguro, Salman Rushdie, Michael Ondaatje, and Michel Houellebecq. I read the Chron, the Guardian, and the NY Times online, and still laugh out loud reading The Onion.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food, great friends, conversation, music, literature, and coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to do next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most likely watching a movie, play, or band, and unwinding with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You have a lust for life and are some combination of kind, confident, adventurous, intelligent, and amorous.
Bonus points for non-natives.