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HereToBeMe

27 / M / Straight / Available

Chicopee, Massachusetts

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:37pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Aquarius and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
The other day, someone was going on about themselves, then stopped and said "OK, so tell me about you." And I was silent, didn't even know who I am in that moment. So I need to rediscover who I am. Here's what I've remembered so far:

Radical moderate/moderate radical. Musician. INFJ. Astrologer (there is far, far more to astrology than newspaper horoscopes). Redhead. Lefty. Jack of all trades, master of a couple.
What I’m doing with my life
Living the American Dream, although that was certainly never my intention.

I work a lot. Too much. My job's good, and I'm good at it, but it's not particularly fulfilling. I hope to do something more meaningful, which may or may not require law school.
I’m really good at
Listening. Understanding. Debating. Witty repartees. Singing, although I am rusty. I am also in the top 5% worldwide on a number of iOS casual games (Temple Run 2, Doodle Jump, Bouncedown). Yes, you can have my autograph.
The first things people usually notice about me
My red hair - I can be picked out of a crowd pretty easily. So much for that life of crime...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a culture sponge. If I don't know it, I've probably heard of it.

I like Utopias and dystopias. Philosophy, non-fiction, good fiction, current events. Everything Vonnegut wrote. The Alchemist. I Am America (And So Can You!)

Very broad musical tastes - everything from Eminem to the Greatful Dead to Ani Difranco to The Beatles. I used to be more involved in the local music scene; my triumphant return is yet another thing on my to-do list.

I just got Netflix, so I'm back into TV after a long hiatus. Breaking Bad, Louie, 30 Rock, and Mad Men are my favorites so far. I consider Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert two of the most important voices in our political echo chamber.
The six things I could never do without
Music, good beer, the Internet, coffee, chocolate, and water. Oh and oxygen. And Vitamin D.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to rebuild society without all of its inequalities and injustices. Specifically, blending capitalism and socialism's best parts to create a society rooted in accountability and opportunity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging at home most likely, although I love trivia nights and concerts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not looking for anything super-serious on here. I'm just looking for some fun connections, new friends, and some lighthearted fun. I believe life is too short to be missing opportunities to connect with good people. I don't want to look back on my life and only see missed chances and regrets.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You enjoy subverting dominant paradigms. Women of OKC, initiate contact! Break the cycle!