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53 Montclair, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 38-51
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:51pm
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t want kids
My self-summary
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Media/Artist/Creative type alert: Head, Heart & Guts! Sane, stable, fearless, spontaneous, quirky, creative, fun, emotionally, physically and spiritually fit, engaged and engaging human. Animals and kids love me, I grew up in a big family, so I know how to share... I'm also chock-full of beauty & flaws. Looking for someone to explore and expand the meaning of love, life, giving, receiving, etc
What I’m doing with my life
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Making media, Commuting in after living in Manhattan for 20 years! Looking at myself, laughing at myself, reading, making eye contact, listening, smiling, spinning, swimming, laughing...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the good, focusing on the positive, being honest, being open, being willing.... being, listening, sharing, receiving, not hurting others...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hair, mischievous smile, my green eyes behind my glasses, laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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On the Road, Just Kids, Tender Bar, Confederacy of Dunces, The Effects of the Gamma Rays on the Man in the Moon Marigolds, Louie, Thee Volatiles, Lou, Mumford and Sons, Wyclef, SPICY anything!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Never!!!?? OK, keeping it simple: Gratitude, Family, Friends, Passion, ebook Reader...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
BIG IDEAS to change the world, little ideas to simplify my life, women & relationships, exploring, traveling, facing fears... Melody and lyrics, whether my guitar is in tune, should I model my recently rekindled guitar playing style after Mick Jones, Steve Jones, Richard LLoyd or Robert Quine...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What is typical??
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I didn't "get" the Beatles until I was 30+
You should message me if
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You want to see more, hear more. you want to be seen and heard, you're smart, non-traditional, you're sweet and non-judgmental, have spent time in reflection, you're looking to slowly and deeply get to know a guy who you (and your mom) will love...