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36 Watertown, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 1
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
...(and now I sell my soul to okcupid :) Here's a sneak peek at the expense of sounding completely self-promoting and needy...ewww!

I am a well-educated, bright, intelligent, classy, open-minded, independent, confident, compassionate, patient, generous, selfless romantic; A hopeless romantic who doesn't like to settle for less than what I have worked tremendously hard for, emotionally, financially, and intellectually (certainly not high-maintenance, and generally life comes easy to me...until it gets hard, that is). My realistic and ambitious attitude toward life is well balanced by a laid back, calm, and witty side of my personality, appreciated by most who surround me. I dig sarcasm, dry humor, a healthy degree of cynisism, and especially the ability to laugh at oneself. I'm not afraid to be just plain silly when the time is right. However, I will take you to town in an intellectual conversation. Yes that's a challenge ;) Challenges are swell. "Life is too damn short"...that whole thing.

And so.....I'll shock you off your feet; fill your life with smiles, generosity, unconditional friendship, love, and appreciation. With my spontaneity I will keep you intrigued, and my dependability will keep you grounded. As you can see, I'm the whole freakin' package, and I truly don't know why one of you dudes has not yet scooped me up, haha. But seriously!

"Balance". Let's find our balance, and live happily ever after in endless bliss (that's the hopeless romantic talking ;) I'm not oblivious to the fact that it takes steps to achieve such bliss, but let's grab hands and do our best to enjoy the ride, together.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it! Expressive Arts Therapist/Mental Health Clinician
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Stay tuned and you shall see.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My genuinity and sincerity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love books, music, movies, and I love to cook. Once again, stay tuned.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Empathy, Compassion, Dignity, Self-respect, Optimism, and most importantly my family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I "want" to spend a lot of time thinking ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Contemplating cutting my hair. Get it while it's long!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Come on now.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...If you would consider yourself chivalrous. Bam! In the same way that I will give and give, I will seek your gentlemanly strength and warmth. Masculinity, confidence, charm, stability, independence, intellect, along with a sweet, thoughtful and sincere heart make for a lovely introduction to who/what I'm after. I want "you", the unique, one-of-a-kind, "you", so tell me why...better yet, show me ;)