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HeyBJ

27 M San Marino, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I don't really like these open-ended essay formats. I tend to just spew a bunch of word vomit. Aaaaand here we go!

I'm more introvert than extrovert, but I can be very outgoing when I want to be. If it's not apparent in my pictures, I'm Chinese, albeit incredibly whitewashed. My interests include comic books, games of all kinds, piano, and awful, terrible jokes. Puns in particular. Also, I enjoy long walks on the beach. Yes, I do realize that it's a terrible cliche, and I'm ok with that.

And for the more perverted-minded gals out there (by the way: how YOU doin?), my username has nothing to do with a sexual act; those are my initials.

See? Word vomit!
What I’m doing with my life
Applying for grad school this year in the field of Psychology. In the meantime, I'm working as a temp and also volunteering in a Psych lab at a local university.

Trying to get back in shape. My Asian metabolism keeps me thin, but it also makes it hard to maintain muscle mass.
I’m really good at
Remembering tv and movie quotes.

Those claw machine games. I love playing them, but I usually have no use for the prizes, so now I'm stuck with a good sized pile of stuffed animals. I've started to give them away to small children whenever I win them in arcades (and desperately try not to cross that threshold between nice and creepy).

Using my brain. For the smart making.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Ender's Game, Ender's Shadow, A Confederacy of Dunces, the Lord of the Rings trilogy, comic books. Despite the thickness of my glasses, I'm not terribly well-read. I recently started on the 5th book in the Song of Ice and Fire series.

Movies: The real list is too long to post here. Some essentials include: The Avengers, Forrest Gump, Ip Man, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, anything Pixar, Serenity, Star Wars (original trilogy!), and many, many more.

TV: Again, too long to post in entirety. Favorites include: Arrested Development, Azumangadaioh!, Breaking Bad, The Colbert Report, Community, The Daily Show, Friends, Game of Thrones, How I Met Your Mother, Modern Family, The Office, The Simpsons, South Park, The Walking Dead, and so many more.

Music: Mostly classic rock, but I'm trying to branch out. Favorites include: Audioslave, The Beatles, Bob Dylan, Foo Fighters, Pearl Jam, Pink Floyd, Queen, Radiohead, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Robin Sparkles, and more.

Food: I'm not really picky. I'll eat pretty much anything, although I have a strong preference for things with cheese.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:
1. Intelligent, clever conversation
2. Fast and reliable internet access
3. Music
4. My smartphone
5. My own means of transportation
6. I dunno. Cat videos?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the universe, and everything.

How wildly inconsistent and inaccurate the Personality tab is on this site.

...What do I want for lunch?
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends, at the gym, or just hanging out at home. Occasionally wishing my Friday nights were more exciting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a sucker for goopy romantic stuff. Oof, that hurt just to type.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have a good sense of humor and enjoy witty repartee.

Bonus points if you:
-Like/know how to dance and think you can teach a guy with two left feet
-Are into photography
-Are a fan of Disneyland
-Enjoy nerdish activities
-Play a musical instrument
-Enjoy comparing answers in the "Questions" section

Finally, at this risk of coming off as a total douchebag, these are my dating deal breakers. But let's be honest, we all have them. I am not interested in dating someone who:
-Smokes
-Does hard drugs
-Has no personal goals
-Finds herself frequently asking her friends to explain jokes to her
-Has no intention of doing anything sexual before marriage. I respect your reasons, but I enjoy the sexy time.