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HeyItsBennyB

19 / M / Straight / Single

Indianapolis, Indiana

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:58am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I work at Greeks Pizzeria in Broad Ripple. I'm a drummer in multiple bands around Indiana, recording artist, delivery driver, producer of beats and ambient music, and performer. I value self education, it's something I think many people over look in life but I think it' important. In a world were smart phones are smarter than the users someone has to care about education still. I loath life in America, things always seem to be plummeting to send us into our demise, politics are games of who can spend more and no one seems to notice that we're all self centered, egotistical and pretentious.

Family matters, I lose sight of many things that are important to me unfortunately. I find that the busier I get the more prone I am to forgetting the people that impact my life the most. I'm not really looking for a relationship, but at the same time I would like something that may emulate one.

I'm always busy with work and making my music move, so it's tough to be able to keep in constant contact so what I'm looking for is a girl that's going to be down to kick it on the regular. Someone that's down to roll out with me for band practice and kick it with me for a late night dinner afterwards.

I'm negative, critical and pretty blunt. If you can't dig it, don't even try. I'm understanding and open minded though. If all of this sounds cool with you feel free to contact me and we'll see where it goes
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working on making something of myself. Shit, I'm 19, not really expecting to have everything down but I work full time, pursue my dreams and I think all in all that's a start
I’m really good at
Driving, delivering pizzas, running sound for bands, playing drums. I feel my biggest skill is playing music, I've worked on my "art", for lack of better words, for about 7 years, drums and performing with bands just seems like a natural thing to me
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure... maybe my height, or lack there of
My beard, I'm bearded. It was always a childhood dream
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
This Is Your Brain on Music

Movies:
The Rum Diaries
Star Trek: First Contact

Shows:
Seinfeld

Music:
From Cities Above
Stronghold
Lakota De Kai
Otto and The Gearheads

Food:
Anything.... I'm 19 what's it to ya??
The six things I could never do without
music: music is part of survival mode 101
friends: although my friend are normally poor and bummy and are expensive to keep around they make my life more worth it
work: work is filled with friends, it also ensures that I'm still making it somewhere
drums: because music is so important, it's the universal language.
car: I deliver pizza, plus I always go out and see my two favorite people, my Grandma, and my Grandma
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why I'm not thinking about anything for this section.
Why no one ever seems to care about anyone else.
Why things never turn out the way we want them to.
Why the world is so cruel.
Why no one ever knows what to say till it's too late to say it
Why No one uses logic when it comes to obvious things.
Why people can't find enough time in the day to stop... and breath.
Why things always seem to be so fucked up.
Why I'm never satisfied with the way things end up, even if they end up great.
Why no one is willing to just say hello every now and then.
Why we let go of people that we care about most.
Why everyone has to change as time passes.
Why, when it comes to strangers, we can't just simply show some god damn respect for them. Because at the end of the day we're all human beings, and if you don't like some one for who they are, how they dress, how they act or where they come from, you should always treat people as an equal because that's the sign of being a fucking adult and if we can't show some understanding the world might as well burn to rubble.
On a typical Friday night I am
delivering pizzas and then going to band practice
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The face I hide is a face of distress. I hate where I've ended up in life, I guess the fact I can't meet any of my goals makes me feel insubstantial and weak
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–23
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're not afraid to actually talk on the phone, legitimate phone conversations no texting. I'm tired of that childish bull shit