I am caring, funny, and a good guy..
My Self-Summary
I believe that life is incredibly short and incredibly precious,
and I live accordingly. I try to approach every single day with a
smile on my face, and that's not a cliche. I go through my ups and
downs and most of the time I don't even know why, but I don't let
it effect my relationships with people. Anyone who has ever met me
will attest to that. I'm not afraid to care and I'm not afraid to
wear my heart on my sleeve -- when I'm angry, I'm fully angry; when
I'm laughing, I'm laughing until it hurts; when I'm crying, I cry
until my eyes go red and I can't take it anymore. I don't do
anything half-heartedly -- from school to relationships -- I want
to live every minute and truly BE THERE. I realize that there are
plenty of people in the world who will look at kindness and
perceive it as a weakness, but I've been there -- I've been cold
and I've shut myself off from the world and from God -- and it's
not a pleasant place to be. If I die and I've made other people
happy, then I truly feel that I've lived a good life. That's the
measure of a man, in my opinion -- the impact that he makes on the
world around him. I'm going into teaching because of this. Because
I want to HELP make people's lives better. Of course, I want some
happiness for my own, and I think that'll come with love, but I
really, truly, enjoy making others happy. I believe in God and,
call it cheezy, but I believe that we're all special or important
in some way. Yeah - that means you, too. So, if you want to talk,
just message me and let me know. :
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently in my LAST SEMESTER of college! Yayyy! :) Anyway,
outside of that -- I work part time with my father at his office.
On my free days I like to hang out with friends, watch TV, read,
watch movies, play X-Box, etc. Pretty standard stuff.
I’m really good at
Hmmm, well... I am a good student. I give off this aura that I'm a
goof who doesn't take class all that seriously (that's mainly
because I like to have fun and I really hate the whole pompous-vibe
that some braniacs give off). I'm great with kids, love 'em. I'm
good at making people laugh and breaking the ice, but I am also one
of the most compassionate/sensitive people you'll know... my
friends joke around and call me Dr. Phil because I'm a good
listener and I give good advice. What else? Well, I'm great at
video games! Woo! Haha. I'm a pretty balanced guy. I loooove
sports, but I also like the Hills, you know? So, yeah.
Oh, and I'm an AWESOME cook. It is one of my favorite things to do.
My family adores me because of this. I literally will make them
3-course meals and stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
To be honest, I don't know. Everyone is different.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Music: U2, Bob Dylan, The Killers, the Rolling Stones, The Beatles,
Audioslave, City and Colour, Snow Patrol, Shinedown, the Goo Goo
Dolls, the Counting Crows, Led Zeppelin, Incubus, Blink 182, AC/DC,
Boy Sets Fire, Guns n Roses, Stone Temple Pilots, Cold, A Perfect
Circle, Finger Eleven, the Wallflowers, Gin Blossoms, Live, Dave
Matthews Band, I like a lot of different stuff... Rock, Classic
Rock, Acoustic, 80's, Soft Rock... whatever.
TV Shows: The Office, OZ, Law & Order SVU, Da Ali G Show, Saved
by the Bell, Sportscenter, Hell's Kitchen, Gordon Ramsay's Kitchen
Nightmares, Top Chef, Around the Horn, PTI, the Road Rules/Real
World Challenges, South Park, The Ultimate Fighter, movies,
football, baseball, and basketball. :)
Movies: City of God, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Fight
Club, Reign Over Me, No Country for Old Men, History of Violence,
The Break Up, Ttotsi, Scarface, Goodfellas, High Fidelity, About
Schmidt, punchdrunklove, Terminator 2, Closer, Team America: World
Police, American History X, Life as a House, Stephen King's IT,
Pulp Fiction, The Life of David Gale, Reservoir Dogs, Predator, 12
Angry Men, SE7EN, Forrest Gump, Home Alone 1 & 2, Gladiator,
Casino, American Beauty, Braveheart, Funny People, Billy Madison,
Happy Gilmore, Requiem for a Dream, Jerry Maguire, Training Day,
The Breakfast Club, The 25th Hour, Scream, Stand By Me, One Flew
Over the Cuckoo's Nest, The Truman Show, Teenage Mutant Ninja
Turtles, Tommy Boy, and most of the Batman movies. I. Love.
Movies.
Books: Fight Club, Choke, Invisible Monsters, Survivor, American
Psycho, Leaving Las Vegas (my absolute favorite), Rules of
Attraction, Something Happened, Catcher in the Rye, the Curious
Case of the Dog in the Night Time.
Food: I'm willing to try anything, really.
The six things I could never do without
Life forces us to live regardless, so -- nothing, I suppose. My
life would lose a great deal of meaning and joy if I didn't have my
family, friends, sports, movies, books, and good times.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life. I sit and think a LOT. I'm not one of those people who is too
busy to contemplate the intricacies of the world we live in. I cry
sometimes when I think about how beautiful and tragic this world
is. It breaks my heart to think about how so much of our lives
depends on where we are born. I genuinely wish that people were
better to each other. It is depressing to see how far we've come in
so many areas, yet how far we lag behind when it comes to simple
humanity. Really.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either out with my friends or relaxing at home.
You should message me if
You like my profile, obviously. I'd also say that, if you like NICE
guys, ones that believe in treating women the RIGHT way, I'm that
kind of guy. I've been raised by a family who has taught me to be
respectful and kind to others -- and, really, that's my best trait.
Sometimes I've been burnt by people who interpret my kindness for
weakness and take advantage of that, but I am who I am and that
won't change. You only live once and I feel that your life is
determined by how much joy you spread in the world, so that's how I
live. If you feel that you want that in your life, shoot me a
message!