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62 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Dropped out of university
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Original Hipster (In the Boho sense of the phrase - Like Coltrane, like Ginsberg, like Miles. I consider myself a Bohemian and a Hipster in the original and true sense of the word. I am a musician, writer, actor, social activist, bureaucrat and so much more that cannot be expressed and has yet to be discovered. I care enough about our society that I'm not afraid to share my truth regardless of the reactions that such truth may engage in people. Though not necessarilly a non- conformist, I am not afraid to take the road less travelled. I love G-D. I love people. I especially love my people. I love my community. I love my country. I love and honor the universe so that it works for everyone. I salute the divinity that is inherent in all people.
What I’m doing with my life
"I'm just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round" - John Lennon.
I’m really good at
Creative problem solving. Finding solutions and making them work. Connecting with people. Building community. Making music. Writing. Expressing ideas. Making the best of things. Having fun.

I'm also a pretty good cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm Black. I'm proud. I have deadlocks. I'm tall. I have expressive eyes. I'm empathetic. I'm a good listener.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Octavia E. Butler, Robert Heinlein, Carlos Castaneda, Dr. Wayne W.Dyer, T.D.Jakes,
Joel Osteen, Barbara Sher, Shakti Gawain.

Movies: The Godfather Trilogy, The Matrix Trilogy, The Bourne Trilogy, Doris Day/ Rock Hudson, Jerry Lewis

Television: Avatar: The Last Airbender, Turner Classic Movies: TCM, Boardwalk Empire, The Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Jon Stewart, Bill Maher, Suits.

Music: Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Weather Report, Jimi Hendrix, Herbie Hancock, Ray Charles, Return To Forever, The Band, Igor Stravinsky, BB King, Curtis Mayfield, The Dave Matthews Band, Bela Fleck & The Flecktones, John Mayer, Anita Baker, Tracy Chapman, Sade, James Brown, Bach, Jonny Lang,
Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, Ravel, Bela Bartok, Rimsky-Korsakov,
Felix Mendelssohn, Camille Saint Saens, Antonio Carlos Jobim.

Food: Seafood, Italian, Chinese, Japanese, Middle Eastern, Soul Food, Cajin, Creole, Mexican, Thai, French, Caribbean, Afrikan, Jewish Deli.
The six things I could never do without
Comfortable Shoes
Good Food
Good Drink
Good Women
Good Friends
Good Music
Engaging Conversation
The City
A warm place to shit

That's 11 things.

So sue me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The state of our society and how to make it better.

How to neutralize the assholes that I meet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting in a restaurant, or at a concert, or in a park, or by a river or the bay, or at home reading, writing or watching television.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still don't know how to roller skate. There!!! I said it!!!

Seriously, we'd have to get to know each other, a lot better, before I'd give up my secrets.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You are sensitive, sincere, adventurous, you find me interesting, and you feel moved to communicate. I don't mind talking. I don't mind meeting either. Let's explore possibilities. At the very least you might make a new friend. Let's see how it goes.