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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 50-58
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:05pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other and it’s important
Dropped out of Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Original Hipster (In the Boho sense of the phrase - Like Coltrane, like Ginsberg, like Miles. I consider myself a Bohemian and a Hipster in the original and true sense of the word. Autodidactic, polymathic; I am a musician, writer, actor, social activist, bureaucrat and so much more that cannot be expressed and has yet to be discovered. I care enough about our society that I'm not afraid to share my truth regardless of the reactions that such truth may engage in people. Though not necessarilly a non- conformist, I am not afraid to take the road less travelled. I love G-D. I love people. I especially love my people. I love my community. I love my country. I love and honor the universe so that it works for everyone. I salute the divinity that is inherent in all people.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"I'm just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round" - John Lennon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creative problem solving. Finding solutions and making them work. Connecting with people. Building community. Making music. Writing. Expressing ideas. Making the best of things. Having fun.

I'm also a pretty good cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm big. I'm Black. I'm proud. I have deadlocks. I'm tall. I have expressive eyes. I'm empathetic. I'm a good listener.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors: Octavia E. Butler, Robert Heinlein, Carlos Castaneda, Dr. Wayne W.Dyer, T.D.Jakes,
Joel Osteen, Barbara Sher, Shakti Gawain, Robert Reich, Paul Krugman.

Movies: The Godfather Trilogy, The Matrix Trilogy, The Bourne Trilogy, Doris Day/ Rock Hudson, Jerry Lewis

Television: Avatar: The Last Airbender, Turner Classic Movies: TCM, Game of Thrones, The Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Jon Stewart, Bill Maher, Suits.

Music: Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Weather Report, Jimi Hendrix, Herbie Hancock, Ray Charles, Return To Forever, The Band, Igor Stravinsky, BB King, Curtis Mayfield, The Dave Matthews Band, Bela Fleck & The Flecktones, John Mayer, Anita Baker, Tracy Chapman, Sade, James Brown, Bach, Jonny Lang, Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, Ravel, Bela Bartok, Rimsky-Korsakov, Felix Mendelssohn, Camille Saint Saens, Antonio Carlos Jobim, etc...

Food: Seafood, Italian, Chinese, Japanese, Middle Eastern, Soul Food, Cajin, Creole, Mexican, Thai, French, Caribbean, Afrikan, Jewish Deli.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Comfortable Shoes
Good Food
Good Drink
Good Women
Good Friends
Good Music
Engaging Conversation
The City
A warm place to shit

That's 11 things.

So sue me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of our society and how to make it better.

How to neutralize the assholes that I meet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting in a restaurant, or at a concert, or in a park, or by a river or the bay, or at home reading, writing or watching television.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still don't know how to roller skate. There!!! I said it!!!

Seriously, we'd have to get to know each other, a lot better, before I'd give up my secrets.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are sensitive, sincere, adventurous, you find me interesting, and you feel moved to communicate. I don't mind talking. I don't mind meeting either.

I've gotten to the point where I'm comfortable in my own skin. I haven't achieved everything that I've wanted to, but then again, I'm not dead yet, so I figure I still got a few shots left. Either I will or I won't. At any rate, I'm through trying to please or impress people.

So let's explore possibilities. At the very least you might make a new friend.

Let's see how it goes.

Oh...and don't be crazy.

I'm not doing crazy anymore.