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61 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:09pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Dropped out of university
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Original Hipster (In the Boho sense of the phrase - Like Coltrane, like Ginsberg, like Miles. I consider myself a Bohemian and a Hipster in the original and true sense of the word. I am a musician, writer, actor, social activist, bureaucrat and so much more that cannot be expressed and has yet to be discovered. I care enough about our society that I'm not afraid to share my truth regardless of the reactions that such truth may engage in people. Though not necessarilly a non- conformist, I am not afraid to take the road less travelled. I love G-D. I love people. I especially love my people. I love my community. I love my country. I love and honor the universe so that it works for everyone. I salute the divinity that is inherent in all people.
What I’m doing with my life
"I'm just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round" - John Lennon.
I’m really good at
Creative problem solving. Finding solutions and making them work. Connecting with people. Building community. Writing. Expressing ideas.

I'm also a pretty good cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm Black. I'm proud. I have deadlocks. I'm tall. I have expressive eyes. I'm empathetic. I'm a good listener.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Octavia E. Butler, Robert Heinlein, Carlos Castaneda, Dr. Wayne W.Dyer, T.D.Jakes,
Joel Osteen, Barbara Sher, Shakti Gawain.

Movies: The Godfather Trilogy, The Matrix Trilogy, The Bourne Trilogy, Doris Day/ Rock Hudson, Jerry Lewis

Television: Avatar: The Last Airbender, Turner Classic Movies: TCM, Boardwalk Empire, The Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Jon Stewart, Bill Maher, Suits.

Music: Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Weather Report, Jimi Hendrix, Herbie Hancock, Ray Charles, Return To Forever, The Band, Igor Stravinsky, BB King, Curtis Mayfield, The Dave Matthews Band, Bela Fleck & The Flecktones, John Mayer, Anita Baker, Tracy Chapman, Sade, James Brown, Bach, Jonny Lang,
Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, Ravel, Bela Bartok, Rimsky-Korsakov,
Felix Mendelssohn, Camille Saint Saens, Antonio Carlos Jobim.

Food: Seafood, Italian, Chinese, Japanese, Middle Eastern, Soul Food.
The six things I could never do without
Comfortable Shoes
Good Food
Good Drink
Good Women
Good Friends
Good Music
Engaging Conversation
The City
A warm place to shit

That's 11 things.

So sue me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The state of our society and how to make it better.

How to neutralize the assholes that I meet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting in a restaurant, or at a concert, or in a park, or by a river or the bay, or at home reading, writing or watching television.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still don't know how to roller skate. There!!! I said it!!!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You are sensitive, sincere, adventurous, you find me interesting, and you feel moved to communicate. I don't mind talking. I don't mind meeting either. Let's explore possibilities. At the very least you might make a new friend. Let's see how it goes.