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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 21
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Not at all
Atheism and it’s important
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If I come across as an arrogant bastard, that's because I am one.

On the other hand, class only looks like arrogance from below :).

Well, only partly joking, but interestingly (even to myself), I'm also quite kind-hearted, intelligent, tolerant, open to all kinds of views on life (if they're half interesting and not copied from the nearest billboard), interested in and intrigued by life, humans, nature, science, technology, language; authentic, dependable, enthusiastic, affectionate, playful, serious, sensual, eloquent, with a sense of humour and an easy smile.

I love to talk about & and do nearly everything (esp. crazy ideas), cuddle, have sex, enjoy life and at the same time make it hard on me.

"We are all made of pieces, and these are joined together so inconsistently that every single component at each changing moment plays its role for itself; the difference between what we are today and what we are at another time is as big as the difference between us and others." (Montaigne)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well, mainly I'm living it ...

I like to work (on my own just as well as with others, fortunately I can do both, being self-employed as an IT consultant), and I like if I feel the 'flow' of something well done. I also like to do just nothing at all and look at thin air.

I like to dance, run, watch movies and plays, read, think, listen, talk, play, paint, work out, meditate (but do some of it much too little).

I like to experience life with others and also to spend days on my own seeing no one, I like to learn and grow and be aware of me and what life 'asks of me'. I like stretching my brain and my heart as much and as often as possible (stolen from blue_lightning_).

I'd like every day to have 27 hours so I could sleep longer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
thinking clearly & effectively as well as in inefficient circles, laughing, fooling around, being morose, hoping, talking, being efficient, crying, playing, working, sleeping, drinking (lots of water, tea, Coke), being desperate, knowing what's good for me and doing the opposite, wanting something and its contrary.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
depends, of course; what I hear most often: my smile, my rather wry humour, my openness, my intelligence, my innate contradictions and ambivalence
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lots, e.g. books by Douglas Adams, Elmore Leonard, Lorrie Moore, Terry Pratchett, Bill James, William Gibson, Iain M. Banks, films by Almodóvar, Coens, Godard, Iñárritu, Jarmusch, Kubrick, Tarantino, etc., music by Bob Dylan, Dire Straits, early Bryan Ferry, Sting, The Beautiful South, Leonhard Cohen, Wir sind Helden, Joss Stone, Bach, Mozart, Haydn, Strawinsky etc.

TV shows ... I don't know many, haven't got a TV for many years, and am very happy for it (saves much time and brain matter).

Food's important to me, I'm no all-in (or all-out?) vegetarian, but I prefer wholesome food without meat from all over the place(s): Japanese, Turkish, Italian, Indian, Pakistani, French, Mexican, Persian, Korean, etc. I was born and raised in Austria, but still most of Austrian cuisine turns me rather off because of fats, meat, sugar.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, films, music, computers, food, Coke Zero :), which are all not as important as friends, love, passion, intimacy, sex, work etc., but I don't see those as things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life, love, people's ways of coping, everything I can think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sure, but I am also on Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Sat, and Sun days and nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
nice oxymoron; mostly anything, as long as you're willing to listen. If I'd killed someone, I probably wouldn't admit it, but as I haven't (knowingly), this is not germane.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you prefer to make up your own mind, you're not scared of unusual points of view, you're interesting, funny, bright, or sexy, or even all of those; if you're all of those, please stop making up your own mind for a moment and just message me right away ;-).