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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 15, 2014
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Catholicism and it’s important
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Nothing is more important to me than my children. I am very involved in their lives and love it. I am not at all materialistic. I love to be outdoors and enjoy backpacking. Most weeks, I hike at least once, usually more.

I am kind, romantic, honest, funny, playful, spiritual, understanding, respectful, giving, open-minded and intelligent. Oh! And humble, too! (-:
I love to holding hands, kissing, and snuggling!

I am overweight, but less so than before. I am down 45+ pounds and still heading in the right direction all through diet (Weight Watchers) and exercise (mostly hiking).

Raised in suburban NJ outside NYC. College at LSU. (BS, Business). After college back to NYC for 4 years of working in the financial services sector. Then moved to the Bay Area in 1990 and refocused career on environmental advocacy and other public interest work. Moved to the North Bay in 1999.

Despite what "okcupid" says: No percentage of me is anyone's "Enemy".
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
The Wheel is turning...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Parenting, woodcraft, numbers/math, research/writing, cooking, kissing/snuggling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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they don't notice me......I'm a ninja!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Science Fiction, Fantasy and Historical Fiction are my favorite categories of books. I am a bit of a "News Hog" so I read many online papers and publications. I like Drama, Mystery, and Action/Adventure films. I prefer to see movies at home as opposed to the theater -- unless it is one of the old fashioned theaters with a BIG house. I love the stage -- community theater to Broadway. I relish live music -- classical to rock to country to hip-hop (not a fan of gangsta rap, but will tolerate it for short periods). I particularly enjoy jam bands, bluegrass and the blues. I enjoy Sushi, Italian, Thai, Chinese, Indian, Mexican, Jamaican, Ethiopian, Vietnamese, Nepalese, and Greek foods. I delight in trying new foods and learning how to make them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
--My Children/My Family
--Music, especially Live Music
--Fresh Healthy Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My kids. Cooking/recipes. Vacations/backpacking/camping. And Your Profile on okcupid! (-;
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be with my children (50/50). Otherwise, I might be going out to see live music, hanging out with friends, or (likeliest scenario) going to bed early to facilitate an early morning start to a day-long hike.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I was once accused of being too focused on having fun.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
--you would like to get to know me better
--you would like a new hiking or dancing partner
--you believe ”Nothing ventured, nothing gained. “