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Hinklemar

27 M Harrisburg, PA

My Details

Last Online
Jan 14
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
**I am now involved with a young woman. Thanks for playing!**

The first and best thing I’d have to say about myself is I am a geek. This may imply different things to different people, and I'd be happy to discuss this with anyone, but don't let preconceptions fill in the blanks.

Moving on, I am very adventurous and would like nothing more than to try new things. This applies to people, places, activities, and very occasionally to food. As I get more in the way of resources, my dreams are only getting bigger in this department.

Though no one can fit a very accurate summary in such a little box, I feel if you grasp the two above concepts then you have a start on what I'm like. I play harder than I work, and I work pretty hard nowadays.
What I’m doing with my life
Career wise, I am learning contracting for the government. A master's degree may be in my future at some point, but for the time being I am just working.

As for what I'm doing with what I make, I am building up, so to speak. I have some clear ideas on possessions I'd like to see in my life and for now my problem is what to prioritize. Currently, getting my own apartment in lieu of roommates is at the top of the list. I have no idea what the next step is once I have everything on the list.

Socially, I'm trying to see my friends as much as practicable. This includes running an awesome Dungeons and Dragons game every Monday. I play some online stuff where I get to chat with some people occasionally too. I'd love to meet some new people to do things with though; setting aside anything in the romantic arena, I often feel somewhat alone in the situation I'm in now.
I’m really good at
I'm going to do this highlight reel style:
Travelling
Planning
Using Numbers
Gaming
Cleaning
Problem Solving
Imagining Things/Dreaming
Rules
Memorization
Relaxing
Skiing
Persevering (for good or bad)
Forgiveness

For extra credit, here's a couple things I'm trying to be better at
Cooking
Listening
Expressing myself
Writing
The first things people usually notice about me
Disclaimer: This is from my point of view, YMMV

I'm quiet.
I'm quirky.
I'm smart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
[Media]: [Genres I enjoy]
[Specific favorites]

Games: RPGs, Cooperative Board/Card, MMOs, FPS
Crysis, Halo, Bioshock, Mass Effect, Zelda, League of Legends, WoW, SW:TOR, MtG, Level 7: Escape, Dominion, Homeworld, Sentinels of the Multiverse, Cards Against Humanity, Dungeons and Dragons, Battlestar Galactica BG, Warmachine/Hordes

Books: Action/Adventure, Mystery, Sci-Fi
Star Wars novels, Eberron novels, Harry Potter, Maus

Movies: Drama, Action/Adventure, Mind-Bending, Sci-Fi
LotR, Star Wars, Last Samurai, Hero, Matrix, Blackhawk Down, Nothing But the Truth, Serenity, Love Actually, Avatar, Forward Unto Dawn, Fanboys

Shows: Drama, Action/Adventure, Anime, Sci-Fi, Funny Stuff
Avatar: The Last Airbender, Battlestar Galactica, Firefly, The Guild, Arrested Development, How I Met Your Mother, The Walking Dead, Trigun, Naruto, Buffy: The Vampire Slayer, The League

Music: Below are my Pandora stations, think in broad strokes....
John Williams (Instrumental)
Katy Perry (Female Vocals)
Flobots (Music with attitude)
Streetlight Manifesto (Ska!!!!!)
Evacuate the Dance Floor (Dance)

Food: American, Italian (I honestly don't know much about food)
Cordon Bleu, Hamburgers, Steaks, Pork Roll, Bacon, Spiral Ham, Mac & Cheese, Chicken Parmesan, Non-green vegetables, most fruits, don't get me started on dessert....
The six things I could never do without
My Friends - I would lay my life down for the ones I have.

My Computer - "My home is where my computer is."

Travel - If I wasn't able to go places I would be lost.

Games - Great for relaxing and being creative!

Music - Ever is there a soundtrack in my head.

Showers - Kinda a cop out, but my day doesn't start till I have one.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I am going and where I've been.

How I can make myself better.

What I've done wrong.

Fantastic worlds.

What other people are thinking.

My next big plan/grand adventure.

This is more of a nitpick that bugs me, but I think about it almost every time I visit the site. After answering a match question, the follow up questions are different on the mobile site vs the browser site. Why is that? Which takes precedence?
On a typical Friday night I am
Hangin out in my room wishing I had somewhere to go out. That's just how it is right now....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have been to the bottom of the barrel of life (or pretty damn close). I was fortunate with friends and got back on my feet quickly, but I was there.

Also, I'm not a big family person. That's a much bigger topic, but I figured I'd throw it out there.

I am usually pretty bad at showing how I feel, just sayin.

To not make this a completely negative zone, I'm an optimist! The world will get better, you just need to find the path and put in the effort.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You'd like to go exploring/adventuring/trying new stuff with someone.

You'd like someone to chat about/play games with.

You think we'd be a smart match.

You'd like to get dinner on one of those Friday nights they talked about....