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45 Melbourne, Australia Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–42
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 21
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm currently in a relationship with bendij and we're mostly looking for a nice woman who might be interested in coming out for a drink with both of us and see how things go from there ;-) We're both very laid back and fun, so don't be scared, we're open-minded but no expectations.

I'm an intelligent and creative person, and usually modest too! I always have a project on the go (programming, film-making etc). My sense of humour can be a bit dry and left-of-centre, or just silly. Sometimes I'm attracted to things that are a bit different or weird, probably just because I see them as more original and less formulaic (but put off by people who describe themselves as wacky and zany!). I like discussing big questions about life, the universe and everything, but also happy to talk about crappy TV shows or nonsensical stuff. I'm a skeptic and an atheist, and I love a good debate about religion or philosophy, but I try not to be the aggressive-atheist type, though I am passionate about truth :-) I'm laid-back and honest with a sarcastic streak. Can be a bit of a hermit sometimes. Not anti-social, but sometimes get involved in whatever I'm working on. I generally like meeting and catching up with people one-on-one rather than in groups. Can get lost in the crowd otherwise :-/

I love animals (except some humans :-)), esp. cats, rats, bunnies and guinea pigs! I like going to the movies, out for drinks, or just staying at home to watch the teev. I also like board games, card games (esp. poker), and puzzles.

I don't like SMS-speak and know where to put apostrophes! If your profile is in ALL CAPS it may be a problem :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a computer programmer, and have mostly worked with 3D graphics programming. Aside from full-time work, I'm writing a little computer game on my own which I hope to sell online. The funny thing is I don't play computer games much. Would rather be creating something :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Um...hmm, let's see... um... procrastinating?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Everyone seems to comment on how I look younger than I am, but I guess that can't count as a first thing unless they already know how old I am, right?!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(1) My computer - email, internet, programming, editing films, I need it for everything!
(2) TV & set-top box with hard-drive recorder :-)
(3) Kittens and other small fluffy animals (even though I don't actually have any, at least I know they're out there 8^])
(4) Friends in the right combination with solitude
(5) Music
(6) My brain?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the universe and the big questions, and whatever project I'm currently working on. The questions left by Lost!

Why is there anything? Or rather how is there anything? ("Why" may erroneously imply purpose).

If there was nothing, what would there be?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

Actually it is probably quite typical typically, despite my "clever" answer. Probably either at home glad the week's over or possibly out somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Creamed honey and Activite sandwiches are great! Actually I haven't had them for years, but didn't want to admit to anything else that I was willing to admit to (?).
You should message me if
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If you think we'd get along.
If you think you might like to go on a date with me and bendij ;-)
If you're looking for answers (not that I'm likely to have them).
If I sound interesting and you'd like to chat.
If you're religious and want a level-headed friendly debate :-)