Well, I am officially in a relationship. I have a fiance, and a boyfriend. This means I am polyamorous. I love both my guys very much. Why am I here? Well. The site is called OKCupid, but i have made some amazing friendships over the years because of this site. I just moved to CA. I don't have many friends. Mostly because my roommates don't have a lot of money and I can't currently drive due to health and the fact that I have sever anxiety because of a really bad experience the first time I was behind the wheel. So... If you wanna hang, you will have to drive. And pay. Which.. well.. Isn't all that fair, but it is what it is. I am disabled, I fight through many illnesses, and I have no income because of them. I don't like it. I will talk about it if you want. But this isn't me whining to you, or looking for some sort of pity. Regardless of what you might thing when you read this. My illnesses are a VERY real and VERY prominent part of my life. If you can't handle that, then we can't hang.
I am not looking for a sexual relationship at this time.
Here is a link to something I wrote, that explains why.
I suggest you read it before you go any further into this thing.
A logical female
Creative and loyal
Smart and Understanding
Major fan of a robot band/ pantomime troupe
Part of the LGBTQ+ community
I also knit, crochet and sew. Which basically means I fix and modify clothes to suit a look or purpose. Don't be surprised if I can make my own outfit out of something mundane. It's a gift and a challenge. I do this to earn a little income. And when I say "a little", I mean it.
I am the type to tell it like it is, but I am also shy. I have a bit of social anxiety that affects conversations at times. I read them but I don't respond until I am good and ready... Anyways...
I am a bigger lady and so well aware of it that I thought I would tell you before you tell me! I get this all the time. Like its news.
Well. I have news for you! "Fat" is just a descriptive word. It isn't a dirty one. It isn't an insult. So don't even try it. :)