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41 • Caldwell, NJ • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–58
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 1
- Body type
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Leo, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)
Спасибо хоть на C++ не заставляют свою скромную биографию расписывать. А так - см. по-английски.
I am an introvert, a night-owl, and an alien
In theater: Shepard, Stoppard, Beckett, Tennessee Williams, Strindberg; or some no-name local production.
This section used to say that I got a reader's block - it seems to be mostly over now. I guess I need to thank my ereader for that - the near-instant availability of formerly printed physical matter was quite a watershed moment. Anyway: Mishima, Borges, Mommsen, E.T.A. Hoffman, Akutagawa, Fitzgerald, Robber-Grillet, Brodsky, Baudrillard, Beckett, Pavich, Updike's short stories, Bolano, Frisch, Machado de Assis, "Слушай Вайль, а где твой Генис?".
I'm a serial abuser of smileys and ellipsis is my favorite punctuation mark by far.
favorite books/movies is the first profile section you read; you know where my nick comes from (or bothered to look it up); a couple of names in my favorites section ring the bell; you hate 50 shades of blah and coehlo without ever having read either; you like hiking/climbing/outdoors; you feel like chatting.
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