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HipsterSpice

23 / F / Bisexual / Available

South Bend, Indiana

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 4:08am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Say yes. Don't die.

These are the words I live by. I want to live an ecstatic life full of adventures and new experiences every day. I'm not waiting for my chance to come, I'm making my own chances every day.

After over half a year, I think I can safely say I have never loved anyone the way I love Seeker21. I love him more every day. That being said, I certainly have enough room in my heart to love more.

We are both bisexual and polyamorous, open to exploring friendships and relationships apart, but preferably together.

A few things I like:
Clever, original conversation
Live music
Walking at night after the rain
Dance floors
Tongues and teeth
Geeks
Movies that pander to the pre-teen male demographic (robots, aliens, explosions, chase scenes, boobs etc.)

A few things I'm not fond of:
Sports in general, football specifically
"Chinstrap" beards
Country music
Being taken for granted
Most deep-fried foods (except friend mushrooms, they are mana from heaven)
Complacency
People who insists on "traditional" gender roles in the dating scene
Racists/homophobics/hipocrites/close minded people in general
What I’m doing with my life
I live in a little white house with my roommate and her two sweet puppies. We watch a lot of nerdy television and drink good booze.

I work full time as a mobile device technician and technology tutor. My job takes up a lot of my time and energy, but I get great friends out of it, so I say it's worth it.

I also spend a lot of time in Benton Harbor with my boyfriend. I'm often up there twice or three times a week.
I’m really good at
Spending all my money on books
Finding new music
Pairing food and wine
Finding a good cafe in a town I've never been to
Starting writing projects that I never finish
Avoiding political arguments
Getting along with all kinds of people
Learning something new every day
Laughing with you
The first things people usually notice about me
My ass, apparently...

No seriously, I polled my work friends at a party and they all said that's what they stare at most.

I've got a pretty nice body overall, and if you're not too distracted by that to look at my face, you'll notice I have very blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay by Michael Chabon
Neverwhere by Neil Gaiman
Dandelion Wine by Ray Bradbury

Movies:
Star Wars (The original trilogy)
Singing in the Rain
Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day
Iron Man
Stranger than Fiction

Shows:
DOCTOR WHO!!!!
Sherlock
Covert Affairs
Fringe

Food:
French pastries
Anything roasted over an open flame
Scones
Salad
Curry
Any and all fruit

Wine:
Riesling (dry or off-dry)
Bordeaux blends
Sauvignon blanc
Pinot gris
Malbec (specifically from Argentina)

Music:
Admiral Fallow
Icona Pop
Sufjan Stevens
Ben Howard
Laura Marling

Plays:
The Importance of Being Earnest by Oscar Wilde
Hamlet by William Shakespeare
Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead by Tom Stoppard
Cyrano de Bergerac by Edumund Rostand
The six things I could never do without
1. Travelling - I need to explore new places
2. Live music - My iPod, though handy, just isn't the same
3. Friends - the weirder, the better
4. Sex - I'm a very sensual person
5. Trees - I like them, they're pretty
6. Creativity - Mine and others. It keeps things interesting.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing, music, literary theory, sex, wine, art, friends' problems, family, my job, etc. I just spend a lot of time thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays mean nothing to a girl who works in retail. On any night I have free, I'm either grabbing a drink or two with friends, watching movies with the roommie, a riotous night in with the boy and maybe even a +1 if we're lucky, or just curled up with a good book and a glass of wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I fall in love easily. But I fall out of love just as quickly.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–27
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
You're open to exploring life with a bi, poly girl and her loverboy. You're okay with breaking through traditional relationship roles and loving people in whatever capacity you can.