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Hisign

38 / M / straight / Single

Detroit, Michigan

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
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Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am black, funny, and kinky.

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My Self-Summary

Well, to be honest, I am an extremely sexually oriented person and I am looking for someone who appreciates that. If I come across as if I am preoccupied by sex, well it is probably because I am. I enjoy sex and don't bother to hide it. I have a dominant personality but do not try to dominate people who are not naturally submissive. I am looking for someone who is exceedingly kind and compassionate. Intelligence is very important as is loyalty. A submissive personality would be nice, but not an absolute must. Someone who knows how to roll a blunt. I dont smoke anymore because of work, but if I ever hit the lotto, fire it up. I suppose I am looking for a relationship with more substance, I fear that women like this do not exist. I love black women and hispanic women especially, but I appreciate women of all races.

What I’m doing with my life

I am working for a non-profit. I spend most of my day helping people better themselves. Assisting disadvantaged men and women become successful in life. Fighting racism, sexism, and poverty. This is something I take seriously. I believe in making the world a better place. If you aren't part of the solution, you are probably part of the problem.

I’m really good at

Understanding what motivates people. Listening. Being supportive. Being open-minded and honest.

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably my suit!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies: The Secretary, The Matrix, the Godfather parts I and II, The Road to Perdition, Million Dollar Baby, Man on Fire, Antwon Fisher, Remember the Titans, Love Jones, Ronin, the Bourne Trilogy.

Music:
The best: Prince, Sade, Maxwell
The rest: a wide variety from Rap, Hip Hop, Smooth Jazz, Rock, classical, dance...anything but country. Not that I hate it, I just haven't found any country I like.

The six things I could never do without

Sex, Family, a weight bench, a pint of whiskey, a good frying pan. Yes, I like to cook. No I am not good at it....yet.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Sex obviously, work, money. The usual suspects.
, african american, Prince,

On a typical Friday night I am

Usually at home with at drink watching tv and waiting for Saturday nite!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am a swinger, but I already said that. I love threesomes, foursomes and moresomes.I dont think I can get any more personal. Oh yeah, I am not a good dancer. If you are seeking a monogamous relationship, I am not the one for you.

You should message me if

You are still here after reading all of that.

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