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HobbesInNoVA

48 M Fairfax, VA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:23pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a geek. Think "Leonard" from "Big Bang Theory." Except that instead of physics, I do international relations and policy work. So, like Leonard, I'm into gaming, fandom, Joss Whedon, and most 'geek culture'. If you've seen it on the show, I may well have done it (except for the robot fighting invitational; that didn't exist when I was growing up). : )

I am quite loyal, over-educated, and somewhat witty.

[And if you see me on quickmatch, do a search for Calvin and Hobbes. ;)]
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a dedicated servant of the American People.

为美国人民服务
I’m really good at
Pondering. Also coaching, teaching, and mentoring the folks who'll replace me at work.
The first things people usually notice about me
My fuzzy face. B{)} The running joke at work is that I do Civil War reenacting on the weekends. I don't, but I could pass for someone who stepped out of a Matthew Brady photograph.

我的大胡子。 跟马克思看起来差不多!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Calvin and Hobbes :) Girl Genius, Schlockmercenary, OoTS, PS 238

Firefly, Serenity, BSG, Ken Burns: "The War", Archer, Big Bang Theory, Deadliest Catch (I swear, it's a soap opera for guys), Mythbusters, Downton Abbey, Doc Martin, Top Gear, Monty Python. (Are you sensing a theme...?)

"Prisoner of the State: The Secret Journal of Premier Zhao Ziyang," The news reader app on my iPhone

Steven Ambrose: "Citizen Soldiers" & "D-Day"
Bill Mauldin: "Up Front"

Chinese, Thai, Italian, Indian, Steaks on my grill

Yes, I admit I'm kind of a geek, but I'm a pan-spectrum geek. :D
The six things I could never do without
Dark Chocolate
Coca-cola (I drink so much, I bought stock in the company!)
Good food
Touch
Intellectual Stimulation
The occasional chewing-gum-for-the-mind activity (escapist fiction, howlingly bad movie, web comix)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Diversified investment strategies.

And how funny inadvertent texting mistakes can be, thanks to autocorrect.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've skipped over a heck of a lot of those survey questions. :)

Plus, I think my "More Conventionally Moral" personality slider comes from my repeated "No" answers to all the drug questions. They kept coming up a lot, it seemed...

Oh. And someone recently opined that, perhaps, I was being less than truthful about my age, given the amount of grey in my beard. If you decide I'm worthy of your time, you're more than welcome to ask to see my driver's license. : ) I do believe one can't establish a relationship based on a broken foundation...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You will find me appealing if you like your guys on the geeky/nerdy/intellectual side of the scale. You'll find me to be honest, very loyal, polite to the waitstaff, professionally successful, and I take a certain amount of pride in being a gentleman. If I checked out your profile but didn't email you, say "hi" anyway! I'm a nice guy.
: )

Ultimately, I'm looking for someone who makes me laugh as much as I make her laugh. I want my female best-friend. I don't have a laundry-list of requirements. It wouldn't help anyway. You just get smitten by what smites you. I want to be smote.