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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:47pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a geek. Think "Leonard" from "Big Bang Theory." Except that instead of physics, I do international relations and policy work. So, like Leonard, I'm into gaming, fandom, Joss Whedon, and most 'geek culture'. If you've seen it on the show, I may well have done it (except for the robot fighting invitational; that didn't exist when I was growing up). : )

I am quite loyal, over-educated, and somewhat witty.

[And if you see me on quickmatch, do a search for Calvin and Hobbes or Girl Genius. I should pop up on one of those. ;) I also note that my searches never return results that don't have pics. Seems to be an OKC default. If you "like" me, but don't have pics, I've got no way to find you and say "thanks." : ) ]
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a dedicated servant of the American People.

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Pondering. Also coaching, teaching, and mentoring the folks who'll replace me at work.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My fuzzy face. B{)} The running joke at work is that I do Civil War reenacting on the weekends. I don't, but I could pass for someone who stepped out of a Matthew Brady photograph.

我的大胡子。 跟马克思看起来差不多!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Calvin and Hobbes :) Girl Genius, Schlockmercenary, OoTS, PS 238

Firefly, Serenity, BSG, Ken Burns: "The War", Archer, Big Bang Theory, Deadliest Catch (I swear, it's a soap opera for guys), Mythbusters, Downton Abbey, Doc Martin, Top Gear, Monty Python. (Are you sensing a theme...?)

Life of Brian, The Longest Day, Guardians of the Galaxy ("*We* are Groot.")

"Prisoner of the State: The Secret Journal of Premier Zhao Ziyang," The news reader app on my iPhone

Steven Ambrose: "Citizen Soldiers" & "D-Day"
Bill Mauldin: "Up Front"

Chinese, Thai, Italian, Indian, Steaks on my grill

Yes, I admit I'm kind of a geek, but I'm a pan-spectrum geek. :D

Oh, and I guess I'll add:
27 Feb 2015: \\//_ LL&P.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dark Chocolate
Coca-cola (I drink so much, I bought stock in the company!)
Good food
Intellectual Stimulation
The occasional chewing-gum-for-the-mind activity (escapist fiction, howlingly bad movie, web comix)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Diversified investment strategies.

And how funny inadvertent texting mistakes can be, thanks to autocorrect.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've skipped over a heck of a lot of those survey questions. :)

Plus, I think my "More Conventionally Moral" personality slider comes from my repeated "No" answers to all the drug questions. They kept coming up a lot, it seemed. And definitely *not* "less thrifty." (That one's new and quite wrong...).

Oh. And someone recently opined that, perhaps, I was being less than truthful about my age, given the amount of grey in my beard. If you decide I'm worthy of your time, you're more than welcome to ask to see my driver's license. : ) I do believe one can't establish a relationship based on a broken foundation...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You will find me appealing if you like your guys on the geeky/nerdy/intellectual side of the scale. You'll find me to be honest, very loyal, polite to the waitstaff, professionally successful, and I take a certain amount of pride in being a gentleman. If I checked out your profile but didn't email you, say "hi" anyway! I'm a nice guy.
: )

Ultimately, I'm looking for someone who makes me laugh as much as I make her laugh. I want my female best-friend. I don't have a laundry-list of requirements. It wouldn't help anyway. You just get smitten by what smites you. I want to be smote.