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Hoffysf

55 / M / Gay / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Jun 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a sexy, very nice guy open to meeting another open-hearted man for friendship, dating, and possible LTR. Love the beauty of Northern CA, the vitality of SF, hiking, walking, the visual and performing arts, design, my family and friends, generosity and compassion, honesty, arm pits, facial hair, sexy men, meditation, massage, and a really warm hug. I'm handsome, bearded with blue eyes, 5 10, 190, solid build, work out regularly. I'm also honest, witty, and fun. I would love to meet another kind, fit man, around my age or younger, open to exploring. Spiritual practice a plus.
What I’m doing with my life
I am on Personal Leave from my job, "settling into myself" through meditation and rest. I'm also taking classes and spending time with family and friends. I have a Buddhist practice, which is important to me, and am part of a sangha in SF. I'm an urban designer professionally and have a great passion for cities, public spaces, the visual arts and design in general.
I’m really good at
Organizing and orchestrating events, ideas generation, and writing. I'm also good at appreciating the beauty in others. My touchstone is gratitude. I'm a good friend. I'm kind. I have a great touch.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Latest amazing book: A Fine Balance. I also read a lot of non-fiction, including newspapers (Chron and NYT) and design mags.
Movies: Across the Universe. Enjoy the LGBT and Jewish Film Festivals. Like all kinds of films, though not much into chick flicks.
Shows: Jean Paul Gaultier as of late. Love the visual arts, museums. Also love the performing arts.
Music: No heavy metal; nothing too loud. Like jazz.
Food: All kinds of ethnic food.
The six things I could never do without
Family, friends, my artwork, gratitude, love, my Billy community (I can explain later)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics, urban design, public policy, art, family, friends
On a typical Friday night I am
Resting at home, watching a movie, hanging with friends, occassional show, occassional Shabbat service
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
We'll have to discuss this.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 34–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating