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57 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34-58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:35am
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
My self-summary
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I am a sexy, very nice guy open to meeting another open-hearted man for friendship, dating, and possible LTR. Love the beauty of Northern CA, the vitality of SF, hiking, walking, the visual and performing arts, design, my family and friends, generosity and compassion, honesty, arm pits, facial hair, sexy men, meditation, massage, and a really warm hug. I'm handsome, bearded with blue eyes, 5 10, 190, solid build, work out regularly. I'm also honest, witty, and fun. I would love to meet another kind, fit man, around my age or younger, open to exploring. Spiritual practice a plus.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an urban planner for a city in the East Bay. I have a Buddhist practice, which is my spiritual path. I have a great passion for cities, public spaces, the visual arts and design in general. I often go to gatherings and retreats in rural areas.
I’m really good at
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Organizing and orchestrating events, ideas generation, and writing. I'm also good at appreciating the beauty in others. My touchstone is gratitude. I'm a good friend. I'm kind. I have a great touch.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes and my butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Latest amazing book: A Fine Balance. I also read a lot of non-fiction, including newspapers (Chron and NYT) and design mags.
Movies: Like all kinds of films, though not much into chick flicks.
Old films at the Castro. Enjoy the LGBT and Jewish Film Festivals. Shows: Love the visual arts, museums, movies and the performing arts. Music: No heavy metal; nothing too loud. Like jazz.
Food: All kinds of ethnic food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, compassion, gratitude, love, my Billy community (I can explain later)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, urban design, public policy, art, family, friends
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Resting at home, watching a movie, hanging with friends, occassional show, occassional Shabbat service
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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We'll have to discuss this.
You should message me if
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If you're a kind man and any of the above resonates with you.